From fantine@sonic.net Sat May 1 22:28:07 2010 Received: from b.mail.sonic.net (b.mail.sonic.net [64.142.19.5]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o422R0hB022465 for ; Sat, 1 May 2010 22:28:07 -0400 Received: from FLOGGER3000 (75-101-18-7.dsl.static.sonic.net [75.101.18.7]) by b.mail.sonic.net (8.13.8.Beta0-Sonic/8.13.7) with ESMTP id o422Qxof031568 for ; Sat, 1 May 2010 19:27:00 -0700 From: "Fantine" To: Message-ID: MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="us-ascii" X-Priority: 3 (Normal) X-MSMail-Priority: Normal X-Mailer: Microsoft Outlook, Build 10.0.6856 Importance: Normal Thread-Index: AcrKr71zqfKoCAAuSFmV2uhKkC1ARgACpPmwAGJ2HyAGE1dgsAFDOKAA In-Reply-To: <5704E3E393664FADB3C00BFFD8B7B704@FLOGGER3000> X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.00.2900.5579 Content-Transfer-Encoding: 8bit X-MIME-Autoconverted: from quoted-printable to 8bit by msb.ernest-doss.org id o422R0hB022465 Subject: [UUPoly-L] San Francisco Bay Area Chapter UUPA X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sun, 02 May 2010 02:28:07 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 1 May 2010 19:27:05 -0700 X-List-Received-Date: Sun, 02 May 2010 02:28:07 -0000 Announcing the San Francisco Bay Area Chapter of Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness (to serve the Greater Bay Area of San Francisco and such areas of Pacific Central District as identify with us) We (eight of us!) held our organizing meeting on April 30, 2010, at Fremont, CA (where the Pacific Central District-UUA was holding its District Assembly.) We agreed on the name and scope of the chapter and on the three core members (Bill, 'Cesca & Darlene) to establish the chapter. 'Cesca will start the paperwork and get us "registered" with UUPA.org. Madeleine will establish a yahoo group, add the above members and screen additions. Plus we decided our next quarterly event will be a barbeque at Les's in August! (Stupid me, I forgot to get signatures on the forms at the dinner, so I will be snail-mailing forms to Bill & Darlene, after I get addresses.) The dinner meeting was a social success. We talked until Darlene was late for the DA banner parade, sharing stories about our UU lives, our poly ties (guess what - we're related!) and theories of sexual orientation (Did you know that folks who are raised UU are *assumed* to be bisexual?????!!!!). Personally, I was elated to once again find validation for my going out on a limb. Poly Rocks! I am so happy to know you people. Let the dialog begin. 'Cesca cat herder (you know: if you want to herd cats, offer food) From aine.maire@gmail.com Sun May 2 08:15:31 2010 Received: from fg-out-1718.google.com (fg-out-1718.google.com [72.14.220.155]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o42CFUfx028958 for ; Sun, 2 May 2010 08:15:31 -0400 Received: by fg-out-1718.google.com with SMTP id e21so537707fga.2 for ; Sun, 02 May 2010 05:14:39 -0700 (PDT) Received: by 10.239.189.137 with SMTP id t9mr709390hbh.33.1272802479125; Sun, 02 May 2010 05:14:39 -0700 (PDT) MIME-Version: 1.0 Received: by 10.239.191.140 with HTTP; Sun, 2 May 2010 05:14:19 -0700 (PDT) In-Reply-To: References: <5704E3E393664FADB3C00BFFD8B7B704@FLOGGER3000> From: aine.maire@gmail.com Message-ID: To: uupoly-l@uupa.org Content-Type: text/plain; charset=ISO-8859-1 X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] San Francisco Bay Area Chapter UUPA X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sun, 02 May 2010 12:15:31 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sun, 2 May 2010 08:14:19 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Sun, 02 May 2010 12:15:31 -0000 Congratulations on setting up your chapter! I wish you much success and joy. Anne:) On Sat, May 1, 2010 at 22:27, Fantine wrote: > Announcing the > San Francisco Bay Area Chapter of Unitarian > Universalists for Polyamory Awareness (to serve the > Greater Bay Area of San Francisco and such areas of > Pacific Central District as identify with us) > > We (eight of us!) held our organizing meeting > on April 30, 2010, at Fremont, CA (where the Pacific > Central District-UUA was holding its District > Assembly.) We agreed on the name and scope of the > chapter and on the three core members (Bill, 'Cesca & > Darlene) to establish the chapter. 'Cesca will start > the paperwork and get us "registered" with UUPA.org. > Madeleine will establish a yahoo group, add the above > members and screen additions. Plus we decided our next > quarterly event will be a barbeque at Les's in August! > > (Stupid me, I forgot to get signatures on the > forms at the dinner, so I will be snail-mailing forms > to Bill & Darlene, after I get addresses.) > > The dinner meeting was a social success. We > talked until Darlene was late for the DA banner parade, > sharing stories about our UU lives, our poly ties > (guess what - we're related!) and theories of sexual > orientation (Did you know that folks who are raised UU > are *assumed* to be bisexual?????!!!!). Personally, I > was elated to once again find validation for my going > out on a limb. Poly Rocks! I am so happy to know you > people. Let the dialog begin. > > 'Cesca > cat herder > > (you know: if you want to herd cats, offer food) > > > > _______________________________________________ > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. > UUPoly-L mailing list > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > From kd0r@fhrd.net Sat May 8 21:03:56 2010 Received: from trueband.net (director.trueband.net [216.163.120.8]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with SMTP id o4912nlT007206 for ; Sat, 8 May 2010 21:03:56 -0400 Received: (qmail 20267 invoked by uid 1006); 9 May 2010 01:02:48 -0000 Received: from kd0r@fhrd.net by rs0 by uid 1003 with qmail-scanner-1.16 (spamassassin: 3.2.5. Clear:SA:0(0.1/100.0):. 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(kd0r@75.104.74.72) by -v with SMTP; 9 May 2010 01:02:46 -0000 Message-ID: <4BE6098C.8010305@fhrd.net> From: David Heinsohn User-Agent: Thunderbird 2.0.0.24 (Windows/20100228) MIME-Version: 1.0 To: Kansas Polyamory , OKPoly , KCPoly@yahoogroups.com, uupoly-l@uupa.org Content-Type: text/plain; charset=ISO-8859-1; format=flowed Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit Subject: [UUPoly-L] June Campout and Amateur Radio Field Day Event X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sun, 09 May 2010 01:03:56 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 08 May 2010 20:02:04 -0500 X-List-Received-Date: Sun, 09 May 2010 01:03:56 -0000 Good Morning to all the poly folk in and around Kansas! This is a reminder for all of you that there's going to be a Poly oriented camping get together that will include some amateur radio fun for those so inclined, on the weekend of June 25 - 27. Mark your calendars and plan on being there for some or all of the fun. So what are we going to do? Good question, glad you asked. 1. Eat some good food! 2. Enjoy visiting with our poly friends 3. Eat some good food! 4. Camp out in the best camping month of the year 5. Eat some good food 6. Drink some good coffee 7. Do some amateur radio operating 8. Eat some good food 9. Swim in the creek 10. Watch some movies 11. Eat some good food 12. Take some walks in the country 13. Drink too MUCH coffee 14. Go fishing in the creek 15. Eat some good fresh fish! 16. Lay around in the sun 17. Play with the kids 18. Drink way too much coffee! 19. Stay up really late playing with the radios 20. Stay up really late playing with . . . . . . ;-) 21. If there is enough interest, we might get a massage therapist to come out and work some of us over. 22. Did I mention that we might drink some good coffee and eat some good food? 23. Do what ever else you might do with "family" on an nice weekend in the Flint Hills. Where is this thing going to be held? Another good question. It'll be at our house, out in the middle of no where, between Elmdale and Marion, KS. About 45 mi. West of Emporia. For complete driving directions let us know by private email that you're coming and need directions. We'll be glad to send them to you. What do I need to bring? Yet another good question. You're really good as asking good questions. Someplace to sleep, like a tent, camper, motorhome, or $$$$$ for a motel or B&B room. Some food. (enough to feed your tribe but not the entire group) Some clothes appropriate to the weather. Not much else. You said food, and indicated above that we might have some good food. So who's going to cook? Wow, more good questions. Normally we throw all the food at Chris and make her slave away in the kitchen. Well that's not entirely true, but it's close. In general we've combined our foods and eaten together. We might do some grilling. We may play stump the chef with Chris and anyone else that feels creative. BUT, you can do camp food for your own tribe if you prefer. Oh, and if you can, help cleaning up after meals helps the chef/s be more creative for the next meal. So when should we get there? The short answer to that one is when you can. The longer answer is that we'll start gathering Friday night, whenever you can here. We'll break up Sunday afternoon, but probably late. Now if you're really energetic you can show up the weekend before and help us get ready. Chris and I've taken the week before the big event off. Much of that time we'll be doing prep for the campout, gardening, house cleaning, mowing, stuff like that. Some of the time we'll be doing Dr.s appointments and stuff so we don't have to miss work. If you'd like to come out help out, let us know. How much is this shindig going to cost me??? Oh, it's cheap! Only $500/person, $300 per child under 12. I'm kidding, I'm kidding!!! Really I'm kidding! There is *NO CHARGE!* This isn't about making money, it's about getting together with friends. What's this Ham Radio stuff? The weekend of our camp out is the weekend of the largest Ham Radio event of the year in the US. We radio nuts take our radios, antennas, computers, and all the other stuff out of our normal radio rooms and set up temporary stations. If you're a ham, of any level license, you're welcome to participate. If you're not a ham, but are a bit curious, it's a great time to see a little bit a mayhem on the radio. I don't plan on putting in a huge radio effort, but it's always fun. So now you tell me what questions you want to ask that I've not managed to answer for you. Please let us know, either via the list, or better yet via personal email, if you even think you might be able to make it. Looking Forward to Seeing YOU in June, David & Chris From n-XskFsitX5Xe-YnqJuw8o4fhl6UY_gUoW7RXOiK7xNkWQTWfDC8@bounce.linkedin.com Wed May 12 23:46:28 2010 Received: from maila-ab.linkedin.com (maila-ab.linkedin.com [70.42.142.146]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4D3jLk0003077 for ; Wed, 12 May 2010 23:46:28 -0400 Sender: messages-noreply@bounce.linkedin.com From: Tammy Laber <2tammy@rogers.com> To: "Uupoly-L@Uupa. Org" Message-ID: <609051914.2674921.1273722320756.JavaMail.app@ech3-cdn13.prod> MIME-Version: 1.0 X-LinkedIn-fbl: XskFsitX5Xe-YnqJuw8o4fhl6UY_gUoW7RXOiK7xNkWQTWfDC8 Content-Type: text/plain; charset=UTF-8 Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: [UUPoly-L] Tammy Laber wants to stay in touch on LinkedIn X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Thu, 13 May 2010 03:46:28 -0000 X-Original-Date: Wed, 12 May 2010 20:45:20 -0700 (PDT) X-List-Received-Date: Thu, 13 May 2010 03:46:28 -0000 LinkedIn ------------ Uupoly-L@Uupa., I'd like to add you to my professional network on LinkedIn. - Tammy Laber Tammy Laber Owner at Write Marketing Toronto, Canada Area Confirm that you know Tammy Laber https://www.linkedin.com/e/isd/1297145161/uBNkSVB4/ ------ (c) 2010, LinkedIn Corporation From earthfather@cfnc.us Thu May 13 00:12:16 2010 Received: from vms173003pub.verizon.net (vms173003pub.verizon.net [206.46.173.3]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4D4B9pU004824 for ; Thu, 13 May 2010 00:12:16 -0400 Received: from MVRLENOVO2008 ([unknown] [173.79.126.150]) by vms173003.mailsrvcs.net (Sun Java(tm) System Messaging Server 7u2-7.02 32bit (built Apr 16 2009)) with ESMTPA id <0L2C004BOBL91780@vms173003.mailsrvcs.net> for uupoly-l@uupa.org; Wed, 12 May 2010 23:10:21 -0500 (CDT) From: "Michael Rios" To: References: <609051914.2674921.1273722320756.JavaMail.app@ech3-cdn13.prod> Message-id: MIME-version: 1.0 Content-type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii Content-transfer-encoding: 7bit X-Mailer: Microsoft Office Outlook 11 Thread-index: AcryTu2I0URXEdufTCe3np3VjcvuTAAAxkzg In-reply-to: <609051914.2674921.1273722320756.JavaMail.app@ech3-cdn13.prod> X-MIMEOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.00.2900.5931 Subject: [UUPoly-L] SPAM WARNING RE: Tammy Laber wants to stay in touch on LinkedIn X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Thu, 13 May 2010 04:12:16 -0000 X-Original-Date: Thu, 13 May 2010 00:10:20 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Thu, 13 May 2010 04:12:16 -0000 This is almost certainly spam. Linked-in sends out these notices without the user's permission or knowledge. I strongly recommend against responding to this, or dealing with Linked-in. Michael Rios > -----Original Message----- > From: uupoly-l-bounces+earthfather=cfnc.us@uupa.org [mailto:uupoly-l- > bounces+earthfather=cfnc.us@uupa.org] On Behalf Of Tammy Laber > Sent: Wednesday, May 12, 2010 11:45 PM > To: Uupoly-L@Uupa. Org > Subject: [UUPoly-L] Tammy Laber wants to stay in touch on LinkedIn > > LinkedIn > ------------ > > > Uupoly-L@Uupa., > > I'd like to add you to my professional network on LinkedIn. > > - Tammy Laber > > Tammy Laber > Owner at Write Marketing > Toronto, Canada Area > > Confirm that you know Tammy Laber > https://www.linkedin.com/e/isd/1297145161/uBNkSVB4/ > > > > ------ > (c) 2010, LinkedIn Corporation > _______________________________________________ > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. > UUPoly-L mailing list > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l From union-consult@charter.net Thu May 13 12:19:30 2010 Received: from mta21.charter.net (mta21.charter.net [216.33.127.81]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4DGJTrX014400 for ; Thu, 13 May 2010 12:19:30 -0400 Received: from imp10 ([10.20.200.15]) by mta21.charter.net (InterMail vM.7.09.02.04 201-2219-117-106-20090629) with ESMTP id <20100513161919.NXRI75.mta21.charter.net@imp10> for ; Thu, 13 May 2010 12:19:19 -0400 Received: from kelly ([68.114.55.67]) by imp10 with smtp.charter.net id H4KK1e0071T0s04054KKh5; Thu, 13 May 2010 12:19:19 -0400 X-Authority-Analysis: v=1.0 c=1 a=9L3x2eEEoXgA:10 a=q8OS1GolVHwA:10 a=8nJEP1OIZ-IA:10 a=IVgIdVCEAAAA:8 a=onhi19IbAAAA:8 a=jU4qhlNgAAAA:8 a=oMEPUpoaV_NXem68h2MA:9 a=D43mMJh03OQFs-N9ieMA:7 a=Di0Fun2_RtnUGThx7mZGVcaizM0A:4 a=wPNLvfGTeEIA:10 a=Cbt47AKeNSMA:10 a=3eoJJSWtpq8A:10 a=Ma507JNFj8MA:10 a=XawBeJv4dxUA:10 Message-ID: <1B5C3EB05737404B93DDF372706E1945@kelly> From: "Union Consult" To: References: MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1"; reply-type=original Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Priority: 3 X-MSMail-Priority: Normal X-Mailer: Microsoft Outlook Express 6.00.2900.5931 X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.00.2900.5931 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 3 X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Thu, 13 May 2010 16:19:30 -0000 X-Original-Date: Thu, 13 May 2010 12:18:57 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Thu, 13 May 2010 16:19:30 -0000 Sent her the following on her contact page "Your linked in request was sent to a religious purpose list that has no interest in or relation to you and since we are not located in Canada, you have been reported to the computer fraud section of the International Trade Commission" Ought to give her pause (grin) ----- Original Message ----- From: To: Sent: Thursday, May 13, 2010 12:00 PM Subject: UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 3 > Send UUPoly-L mailing list submissions to > uupoly-l@uupa.org > > To subscribe or unsubscribe via the World Wide Web, visit > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > or, via email, send a message with subject or body 'help' to > uupoly-l-request@uupa.org > > You can reach the person managing the list at > uupoly-l-owner@uupa.org > > When replying, please edit your Subject line so it is more specific > than "Re: Contents of UUPoly-L digest..." > > > Today's Topics: > > 1. Tammy Laber wants to stay in touch on LinkedIn (Tammy Laber) > 2. SPAM WARNING RE: Tammy Laber wants to stay in touch on > LinkedIn (Michael Rios) > > > ---------------------------------------------------------------------- > > Message: 1 > Date: Wed, 12 May 2010 20:45:20 -0700 (PDT) > From: Tammy Laber <2tammy@rogers.com> > Subject: [UUPoly-L] Tammy Laber wants to stay in touch on LinkedIn > To: "Uupoly-L@Uupa. Org" > Message-ID: > <609051914.2674921.1273722320756.JavaMail.app@ech3-cdn13.prod> > Content-Type: text/plain; charset=UTF-8 > > LinkedIn > ------------ > > > Uupoly-L@Uupa., > > I'd like to add you to my professional network on LinkedIn. > > - Tammy Laber > > Tammy Laber > Owner at Write Marketing > Toronto, Canada Area > > Confirm that you know Tammy Laber > https://www.linkedin.com/e/isd/1297145161/uBNkSVB4/ > > > > ------ > (c) 2010, LinkedIn Corporation > > ------------------------------ > > Message: 2 > Date: Thu, 13 May 2010 00:10:20 -0400 > From: "Michael Rios" > Subject: [UUPoly-L] SPAM WARNING RE: Tammy Laber wants to stay in > touch on LinkedIn > To: > Message-ID: > Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii > > This is almost certainly spam. Linked-in sends out these notices without > the user's permission or knowledge. > > I strongly recommend against responding to this, or dealing with > Linked-in. > > Michael Rios > >> -----Original Message----- >> From: uupoly-l-bounces+earthfather=cfnc.us@uupa.org [mailto:uupoly-l- >> bounces+earthfather=cfnc.us@uupa.org] On Behalf Of Tammy Laber >> Sent: Wednesday, May 12, 2010 11:45 PM >> To: Uupoly-L@Uupa. Org >> Subject: [UUPoly-L] Tammy Laber wants to stay in touch on LinkedIn >> >> LinkedIn >> ------------ >> >> >> Uupoly-L@Uupa., >> >> I'd like to add you to my professional network on LinkedIn. >> >> - Tammy Laber >> >> Tammy Laber >> Owner at Write Marketing >> Toronto, Canada Area >> >> Confirm that you know Tammy Laber >> https://www.linkedin.com/e/isd/1297145161/uBNkSVB4/ >> >> >> >> ------ >> (c) 2010, LinkedIn Corporation >> _______________________________________________ >> The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. >> Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. >> UUPoly-L mailing list >> UUPoly-L@uupa.org >> http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > > > > ------------------------------ > > _______________________________________________ > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. > UUPoly-L mailing list > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > > > End of UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 3 > *************************************** From 2tammy@rogers.com Thu May 13 12:27:18 2010 Received: from n13.bullet.mail.mud.yahoo.com (n13.bullet.mail.mud.yahoo.com [68.142.206.40]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with SMTP id o4DGQBUs015147 for ; Thu, 13 May 2010 12:27:18 -0400 Received: from [68.142.200.227] by n13.bullet.mail.mud.yahoo.com with NNFMP; 13 May 2010 16:26:11 -0000 Received: from [66.196.97.145] by t8.bullet.mud.yahoo.com with NNFMP; 13 May 2010 16:26:11 -0000 Received: from [127.0.0.1] by omp203.mail.re3.yahoo.com with NNFMP; 13 May 2010 16:26:11 -0000 X-Yahoo-Newman-Property: ymail-3 X-Yahoo-Newman-Id: 61203.99322.bm@omp203.mail.re3.yahoo.com Received: (qmail 61768 invoked by uid 60001); 13 May 2010 16:26:11 -0000 Message-ID: <908642.61300.qm@web88108.mail.re2.yahoo.com> X-YMail-OSG: eeGX0pIVM1l.HU_WXvDV7IGhKHt1udMSVsCFqzZ0gZxebFW AYmDb5L.MOxzF.OZUN9WyG6PusShr2LQbARlsBh.EToqmpdA.875Fn0g42mI yJ9aZqDcqxX06dzLRG0VZBLWK0OEcC9KV24Tb0q0xtL09UX4Itk1DL6pG5YF 6K0ErB5O4AF2Bx63YnWQNfcJAOCS1aRg9XikEAdjHPJnESO.Bf2JSRre28f7 .RYdhKXBUzqxIV8YR0wykKOWtbHVBHqB_6G0UZgz6OFiq4JTSNIqbWQBLQVp plBS65budHhIgSZJxNwG9hR693MHaddZur9MNyioCal4H3N2xYFdoLDY- Received: from [99.227.23.96] by web88108.mail.re2.yahoo.com via HTTP; Thu, 13 May 2010 09:26:10 PDT X-Mailer: YahooMailRC/374.4 YahooMailWebService/0.8.103.269680 From: TAMMY LABER <2tammy@rogers.com> To: uupoly-l@uupa.org MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset=iso-8859-1 Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: [UUPoly-L] mea culpa X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Thu, 13 May 2010 16:27:18 -0000 X-Original-Date: Thu, 13 May 2010 09:26:10 -0700 (PDT) X-List-Received-Date: Thu, 13 May 2010 16:27:18 -0000 I was trying to add my contacts to Linked In.=A0 Linked In was overzealous = and added addresses I had not checked.=A0 That being said, I am a long time= UU (even a former president) and a long time subsccriber to the list.=A0 S= o... sorry for the spam.=A0 But I am always happy to talk about my poly exp= eriences, or about marketing and writing, for that matter.=0A=0AAgain, sorr= y for any inconvenience.=A0 Let's go back to poly and UU discussions now, o= kay? From union-consult@charter.net Fri May 14 12:36:42 2010 Received: from mta31.charter.net (mta31.charter.net [216.33.127.82]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4EGagR1025350 for ; Fri, 14 May 2010 12:36:42 -0400 Received: from imp09 ([10.20.200.9]) by mta31.charter.net (InterMail vM.7.09.02.04 201-2219-117-106-20090629) with ESMTP id <20100514163631.YMCR22217.mta31.charter.net@imp09> for ; Fri, 14 May 2010 12:36:31 -0400 Received: from kelly ([68.114.55.67]) by imp09 with smtp.charter.net id HUcW1e00F1T0s0405UcXzc; Fri, 14 May 2010 12:36:31 -0400 X-Authority-Analysis: v=1.0 c=1 a=bW_-vo3YYVIA:10 a=0qYQvVkOOIcA:10 a=8nJEP1OIZ-IA:10 a=IVgIdVCEAAAA:8 a=hOpmn2quAAAA:8 a=onhi19IbAAAA:8 a=jU4qhlNgAAAA:8 a=CjxXgO3LAAAA:8 a=H1_xEzdY4XFVYG2MowgA:9 a=uDtHdHJjsSNzaN7hKq4A:7 a=tbV4j9zLHZ4GkEZ8XAxS6h3l4yIA:4 a=wPNLvfGTeEIA:10 a=Cbt47AKeNSMA:10 a=3eoJJSWtpq8A:10 a=hUswqBWy9Q8A:10 a=Ma507JNFj8MA:10 a=XawBeJv4dxUA:10 Message-ID: <1631E29953D647C296F09B12D23DEB37@kelly> From: "Union Consult" To: References: MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1"; reply-type=original Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Priority: 3 X-MSMail-Priority: Normal X-Mailer: Microsoft Outlook Express 6.00.2900.5931 X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.00.2900.5931 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 4 apology X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Fri, 14 May 2010 16:36:43 -0000 X-Original-Date: Fri, 14 May 2010 12:27:26 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Fri, 14 May 2010 16:36:43 -0000 Apology accepted and appreciated! ----- Original Message ----- From: To: Sent: Friday, May 14, 2010 12:00 PM Subject: UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 4 > Send UUPoly-L mailing list submissions to > uupoly-l@uupa.org > > To subscribe or unsubscribe via the World Wide Web, visit > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > or, via email, send a message with subject or body 'help' to > uupoly-l-request@uupa.org > > You can reach the person managing the list at > uupoly-l-owner@uupa.org > > When replying, please edit your Subject line so it is more specific > than "Re: Contents of UUPoly-L digest..." > > > Today's Topics: > > 1. Re: UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 3 (Union Consult) > 2. mea culpa (TAMMY LABER) > > > ---------------------------------------------------------------------- > > Message: 1 > Date: Thu, 13 May 2010 12:18:57 -0400 > From: "Union Consult" > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 3 > To: > Message-ID: <1B5C3EB05737404B93DDF372706E1945@kelly> > Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1"; > reply-type=original > > Sent her the following on her contact page > > "Your linked in request was sent to a religious purpose list that has no > interest in or relation to you and since we are not located in Canada, you > have been reported to the computer fraud section of the International > Trade > Commission" > > Ought to give her pause (grin) > ----- Original Message ----- > From: > To: > Sent: Thursday, May 13, 2010 12:00 PM > Subject: UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 3 > > >> Send UUPoly-L mailing list submissions to >> uupoly-l@uupa.org >> >> To subscribe or unsubscribe via the World Wide Web, visit >> http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l >> or, via email, send a message with subject or body 'help' to >> uupoly-l-request@uupa.org >> >> You can reach the person managing the list at >> uupoly-l-owner@uupa.org >> >> When replying, please edit your Subject line so it is more specific >> than "Re: Contents of UUPoly-L digest..." >> >> >> Today's Topics: >> >> 1. Tammy Laber wants to stay in touch on LinkedIn (Tammy Laber) >> 2. SPAM WARNING RE: Tammy Laber wants to stay in touch on >> LinkedIn (Michael Rios) >> >> >> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- >> >> Message: 1 >> Date: Wed, 12 May 2010 20:45:20 -0700 (PDT) >> From: Tammy Laber <2tammy@rogers.com> >> Subject: [UUPoly-L] Tammy Laber wants to stay in touch on LinkedIn >> To: "Uupoly-L@Uupa. Org" >> Message-ID: >> <609051914.2674921.1273722320756.JavaMail.app@ech3-cdn13.prod> >> Content-Type: text/plain; charset=UTF-8 >> >> LinkedIn >> ------------ >> >> >> Uupoly-L@Uupa., >> >> I'd like to add you to my professional network on LinkedIn. >> >> - Tammy Laber >> >> Tammy Laber >> Owner at Write Marketing >> Toronto, Canada Area >> >> Confirm that you know Tammy Laber >> https://www.linkedin.com/e/isd/1297145161/uBNkSVB4/ >> >> >> >> ------ >> (c) 2010, LinkedIn Corporation >> >> ------------------------------ >> >> Message: 2 >> Date: Thu, 13 May 2010 00:10:20 -0400 >> From: "Michael Rios" >> Subject: [UUPoly-L] SPAM WARNING RE: Tammy Laber wants to stay in >> touch on LinkedIn >> To: >> Message-ID: >> Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii >> >> This is almost certainly spam. Linked-in sends out these notices without >> the user's permission or knowledge. >> >> I strongly recommend against responding to this, or dealing with >> Linked-in. >> >> Michael Rios >> >>> -----Original Message----- >>> From: uupoly-l-bounces+earthfather=cfnc.us@uupa.org [mailto:uupoly-l- >>> bounces+earthfather=cfnc.us@uupa.org] On Behalf Of Tammy Laber >>> Sent: Wednesday, May 12, 2010 11:45 PM >>> To: Uupoly-L@Uupa. Org >>> Subject: [UUPoly-L] Tammy Laber wants to stay in touch on LinkedIn >>> >>> LinkedIn >>> ------------ >>> >>> >>> Uupoly-L@Uupa., >>> >>> I'd like to add you to my professional network on LinkedIn. >>> >>> - Tammy Laber >>> >>> Tammy Laber >>> Owner at Write Marketing >>> Toronto, Canada Area >>> >>> Confirm that you know Tammy Laber >>> https://www.linkedin.com/e/isd/1297145161/uBNkSVB4/ >>> >>> >>> >>> ------ >>> (c) 2010, LinkedIn Corporation >>> _______________________________________________ >>> The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. >>> Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about >>> yourself. >>> UUPoly-L mailing list >>> UUPoly-L@uupa.org >>> http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l >> >> >> >> ------------------------------ >> >> _______________________________________________ >> The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. >> Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. >> UUPoly-L mailing list >> UUPoly-L@uupa.org >> http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l >> >> >> End of UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 3 >> *************************************** > > > > ------------------------------ > > Message: 2 > Date: Thu, 13 May 2010 09:26:10 -0700 (PDT) > From: TAMMY LABER <2tammy@rogers.com> > Subject: [UUPoly-L] mea culpa > To: uupoly-l@uupa.org > Message-ID: <908642.61300.qm@web88108.mail.re2.yahoo.com> > Content-Type: text/plain; charset=iso-8859-1 > > I was trying to add my contacts to Linked In.? Linked In was overzealous > and added addresses I had not checked.? That being said, I am a long time > UU (even a former president) and a long time subsccriber to the list.? > So... sorry for the spam.? But I am always happy to talk about my poly > experiences, or about marketing and writing, for that matter. > > Again, sorry for any inconvenience.? Let's go back to poly and UU > discussions now, okay? > > ------------------------------ > > _______________________________________________ > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. > UUPoly-L mailing list > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > > > End of UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 4 > *************************************** From geoffrey_mccafferty@yahoo.com Fri May 21 22:08:02 2010 Received: from n22.bullet.mail.mud.yahoo.com (n22.bullet.mail.mud.yahoo.com [68.142.206.161]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with SMTP id o4M26tNP015707 for ; Fri, 21 May 2010 22:08:01 -0400 Received: from [68.142.200.227] by n22.bullet.mail.mud.yahoo.com with NNFMP; 22 May 2010 02:06:54 -0000 Received: from [98.137.27.132] by t8.bullet.mud.yahoo.com with NNFMP; 22 May 2010 02:06:54 -0000 Received: from [67.195.9.99] by t4.bullet.mail.gq1.yahoo.com with NNFMP; 22 May 2010 02:06:54 -0000 Received: from [127.0.0.1] by omp103.mail.gq1.yahoo.com with NNFMP; 22 May 2010 02:06:54 -0000 X-Yahoo-Newman-Property: ymail-3 X-Yahoo-Newman-Id: 593679.73775.bm@omp103.mail.gq1.yahoo.com Received: (qmail 99566 invoked by uid 60001); 22 May 2010 02:06:54 -0000 Message-ID: <457649.99322.qm@web114612.mail.gq1.yahoo.com> X-YMail-OSG: 5DqmBloVM1lx0ERFHUoWFYSczOPLxiJHMK7jaDhSCuzOifI QqT_i2h_Dd8_o3gKbLrfhTDIWvLQhx3nMZ6Iuuh4eWOEC52uDBdPFwpU_qO2 rsvQk1c_58EiYxDWeRp.VlcHhaVTWk_hOc6fnzoyVAIk3rMCpr.lUt.Xpr0A Zj.SN3WBUGvrbnZVdVA1iAWbVgpFRp.MmQ0He7sc2JyIMZY1SeZvDiqG0cbs dN9BOxMcRi1ekpSyhu4JfjEqqeWkecvdS86t5bkpoinX2dEVksE586n9bWeN Bu.T9L1ad Received: from [208.100.134.125] by web114612.mail.gq1.yahoo.com via HTTP; Fri, 21 May 2010 19:06:54 PDT X-Mailer: YahooMailRC/374.4 YahooMailWebService/0.8.103.269680 From: Geoffrey McCafferty To: uupoly-l@uupa.org MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset=iso-8859-1 Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 02:08:02 -0000 X-Original-Date: Fri, 21 May 2010 19:06:54 -0700 (PDT) X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 02:08:02 -0000 Hello friends, =0A=0Amy fianc=E9e and I are polyfidel and looking for a spe= cial lady to fill the whole in our hearts. we have a solid relationship and= lots of love to give. we are considering beginning to attend a unitarian c= hurch. there is one in our home town.=0A=0AShalom,=0A=0AGeoffreu=0A=0A=0A = From dakinitara@tantrikapath.com Fri May 21 22:30:05 2010 Received: from vms173013pub.verizon.net (vms173013pub.verizon.net [206.46.173.13]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4M2Su4J017189 for ; Fri, 21 May 2010 22:30:05 -0400 Received: from HamsaPC ([unknown] [71.173.162.4]) by vms173013.mailsrvcs.net (Sun Java(tm) System Messaging Server 7u2-7.02 32bit (built Apr 16 2009)) with ESMTPA id <0L2S001X3UUXP5A0@vms173013.mailsrvcs.net> for uupoly-l@uupa.org; Fri, 21 May 2010 21:28:15 -0500 (CDT) Message-id: <52843901ACC44F4BA85DF42C04C47287@HamsaPC> From: "Tara Shakti-Ma" To: References: <457649.99322.qm@web114612.mail.gq1.yahoo.com> In-reply-to: <457649.99322.qm@web114612.mail.gq1.yahoo.com> MIME-version: 1.0 X-Priority: 3 X-MSMail-priority: Normal X-Mailer: Microsoft Windows Mail 6.0.6002.18197 X-MIMEOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.0.6002.18197 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-8859-1" Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 02:30:05 -0000 X-Original-Date: Fri, 21 May 2010 22:28:12 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 02:30:05 -0000 Hi Geoffrey: Interestingly, this sort of aspiration recently came up on another list. = I'll share here what I wrote there. =20 As a "single/available" (in the sense I have no co-habiting partners) = bisexual, polyamorous woman, I can speak from my own experience. I = often find when I express this it resonates with other women like me. = Sometimes we are called "unicorns"....as in hard to find, if not = entirely mythical. We become more mythical when a "couple" presents = they are looking for a "third" to "complete" them, with the expectation = beyond that, that the relationship will then basically be "closed" and = essentially merely the same as monogamous marriage, except there's 3 = member instead of 2. If this is your goal, you may be inviting a great = deal of frustration on yourselves. If this is your goal, you may want = to consider a broader and more expansive approach to your polyamorous = expression. For me personally, while I might be very flattered and a = bit affirmed when a "couple" approaches me with the intention of = exploring a triadic connection/relationship, I also feel the pressure = and expectations that I'll be equally and simultaneously interested and = attracted to each of them. This actually rarely ever happens for = anyone, and most definitely me. This isn't to suggest it something like = that may evolve over time, but if your polyamorous expression depends on = the specific poly-model, you may be waiting a very, very long time. You = will likely hear the same thing from the majority of poly-folk who have = been at this for a while. Trust their experience and wisdom...they = know. =20 As a woman who is very open to entering into a sustainable triadic = cohabiting relationship, I prefer to get to know each person = individually, and to feel that I am free to become romantically involved = with only one of them and perhaps merely have a caring friendship with = the other. I certainly have no interest in a closed fMf marriage of = 3....most "single" polyamorous women I know don't. Many of us have = existing relationships with partners with whom we do not cohabit and we = have no intention of abandoning those. So the "closed" just wouldn't = work for us. Personally, I always want for myself and my partners = (real or imagined at this point) to have the freedom to also enjoy = loving, intimate relationships with others....ideally being able to have = some sort of friendly accord with those other individuals at the very = least as well. I know this is likely not what you want to hear, but I feel it's a good = think to consider. Namaste': Tara Shakti-Ma )O(=20 http://www.facebook.com/Tara.ShaktiMa.Dakini =20 * Join us at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ExpansiveLoving/ - An = internationally serving on-line group for spiritually and new-paradigm = inclined poly-folk. We also have a companion group by the same name on = Facebook. =20 * New England Area Polyamory Network at = http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NEAPN/ - Serving as a central resource for = poly-folk in and around the New England area...also with a companion = group on Facebook. =A9 Copyright Tara Shakti-Ma 2010 ----- Original Message -----=20 From: Geoffrey McCafferty=20 To: uupoly-l@uupa.org=20 Sent: Friday, May 21, 2010 10:06 PM Subject: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! Hello friends,=20 my fianc=E9e and I are polyfidel and looking for a special lady to = fill the whole in our hearts. we have a solid relationship and lots of = love to give. we are considering beginning to attend a unitarian church. = there is one in our home town. Shalom, Geoffreu =20 _______________________________________________ The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about = yourself. UUPoly-L mailing list UUPoly-L@uupa.org http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l From lilacdew@gmail.com Fri May 21 22:47:55 2010 Received: from mail-ww0-f47.google.com (mail-ww0-f47.google.com [74.125.82.47]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4M2ltrx018432 for ; Fri, 21 May 2010 22:47:55 -0400 Received: by wwi17 with SMTP id 17so531120wwi.20 for ; Fri, 21 May 2010 19:47:54 -0700 (PDT) MIME-Version: 1.0 Received: by 10.216.166.68 with SMTP id f46mr1402842wel.6.1274496474329; Fri, 21 May 2010 19:47:54 -0700 (PDT) Received: by 10.216.164.6 with HTTP; Fri, 21 May 2010 19:47:54 -0700 (PDT) In-Reply-To: <52843901ACC44F4BA85DF42C04C47287@HamsaPC> References: <457649.99322.qm@web114612.mail.gq1.yahoo.com> <52843901ACC44F4BA85DF42C04C47287@HamsaPC> Message-ID: From: Dorothy Wendt To: uupoly-l@uupa.org Content-Type: text/plain; charset=ISO-8859-1 Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 02:47:56 -0000 X-Original-Date: Fri, 21 May 2010 22:47:54 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 02:47:56 -0000 Hi Geoffrey, I must echo what Tara has put so well. I'll add that it's difficult enough as a couple to find each other; add in a third person, where all three are compatible and in love...wow, that's one big unicorn to find. Nevertheless, I wish you luck in finding the woman that you and your fiance= ' makes your triad. Dorothy On Fri, May 21, 2010 at 10:28 PM, Tara Shakti-Ma < dakinitara@tantrikapath.com> wrote: > Hi Geoffrey: > > Interestingly, this sort of aspiration recently came up on another list. > I'll share here what I wrote there. > > As a "single/available" (in the sense I have no co-habiting partners) > bisexual, polyamorous woman, I can speak from my own experience. I often > find when I express this it resonates with other women like me. Sometime= s > we are called "unicorns"....as in hard to find, if not entirely mythical. > We become more mythical when a "couple" presents they are looking for a > "third" to "complete" them, with the expectation beyond that, that the > relationship will then basically be "closed" and essentially merely the s= ame > as monogamous marriage, except there's 3 member instead of 2. If this is > your goal, you may be inviting a great deal of frustration on yourselves. > If this is your goal, you may want to consider a broader and more expans= ive > approach to your polyamorous expression. For me personally, while I migh= t > be very flattered and a bit affirmed when a "couple" approaches me with t= he > intention of exploring a triadic connection/relationship, I also feel the > pressure and expectations that I'll be equally and simultaneously interes= ted > and attracted to each of them. This actually rarely ever happens for > anyone, and most definitely me. This isn't to suggest it something like > that may evolve over time, but if your polyamorous expression depends on = the > specific poly-model, you may be waiting a very, very long time. You will > likely hear the same thing from the majority of poly-folk who have been a= t > this for a while. Trust their experience and wisdom...they know. > > As a woman who is very open to entering into a sustainable triadic > cohabiting relationship, I prefer to get to know each person individually= , > and to feel that I am free to become romantically involved with only one = of > them and perhaps merely have a caring friendship with the other. I > certainly have no interest in a closed fMf marriage of 3....most "single" > polyamorous women I know don't. Many of us have existing relationships w= ith > partners with whom we do not cohabit and we have no intention of abandoni= ng > those. So the "closed" just wouldn't work for us. Personally, I always > want for myself and my partners (real or imagined at this point) to have = the > freedom to also enjoy loving, intimate relationships with others....ideal= ly > being able to have some sort of friendly accord with those other individu= als > at the very least as well. > > I know this is likely not what you want to hear, but I feel it's a good > think to consider. > > Namaste': > Tara Shakti-Ma )O( > http://www.facebook.com/Tara.ShaktiMa.Dakini > > * Join us at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ExpansiveLoving/ - An > internationally serving on-line group for spiritually and new-paradigm > inclined poly-folk. We also have a companion group by the same name on > Facebook. > > * New England Area Polyamory Network at > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NEAPN/ - Serving as a central resource for > poly-folk in and around the New England area...also with a companion grou= p > on Facebook. > > > =A9 Copyright Tara Shakti-Ma 2010 > ----- Original Message ----- > From: Geoffrey McCafferty > To: uupoly-l@uupa.org > Sent: Friday, May 21, 2010 10:06 PM > Subject: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! > > > Hello friends, > > my fianc=E9e and I are polyfidel and looking for a special lady to fill = the > whole in our hearts. we have a solid relationship and lots of love to giv= e. > we are considering beginning to attend a unitarian church. there is one i= n > our home town. > > Shalom, > > Geoffreu > > > > _______________________________________________ > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself= . > UUPoly-L mailing list > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > _______________________________________________ > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. > UUPoly-L mailing list > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > From anthony.roza@gmail.com Sat May 22 10:35:48 2010 Received: from mail-ww0-f47.google.com (mail-ww0-f47.google.com [74.125.82.47]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4MEZlv2022177 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 10:35:47 -0400 Received: by wwi17 with SMTP id 17so746514wwi.20 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 07:35:46 -0700 (PDT) MIME-Version: 1.0 Received: by 10.216.87.4 with SMTP id x4mr1670755wee.86.1274538946638; Sat, 22 May 2010 07:35:46 -0700 (PDT) Received: by 10.216.26.9 with HTTP; Sat, 22 May 2010 07:35:46 -0700 (PDT) In-Reply-To: References: <457649.99322.qm@web114612.mail.gq1.yahoo.com> <52843901ACC44F4BA85DF42C04C47287@HamsaPC> Message-ID: From: Roza Anthony To: uupoly-l@uupa.org Content-Type: text/plain; charset=ISO-8859-1 Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 14:35:48 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 10:35:46 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 14:35:48 -0000 I'd like to ask my best wishes for finding a third to Tara and Dorothy's, and also point out that for the purposes of looking for people near you, yo= u might add which state (or section of state if it's a big state) you are located in. Finding the perfect person who lives across the country from you sucks. I've done it twice, and I'm determined never to do it again. Roza On Fri, May 21, 2010 at 10:47 PM, Dorothy Wendt wrote: > Hi Geoffrey, > > I must echo what Tara has put so well. I'll add that it's difficult enou= gh > as a couple to find each other; add in a third person, where all three ar= e > compatible and in love...wow, that's one big unicorn to find. > > Nevertheless, I wish you luck in finding the woman that you and your > fiance' > makes your triad. > > Dorothy > > On Fri, May 21, 2010 at 10:28 PM, Tara Shakti-Ma < > dakinitara@tantrikapath.com> wrote: > > > Hi Geoffrey: > > > > Interestingly, this sort of aspiration recently came up on another list= . > > I'll share here what I wrote there. > > > > As a "single/available" (in the sense I have no co-habiting partners) > > bisexual, polyamorous woman, I can speak from my own experience. I oft= en > > find when I express this it resonates with other women like me. > Sometimes > > we are called "unicorns"....as in hard to find, if not entirely mythica= l. > > We become more mythical when a "couple" presents they are looking for = a > > "third" to "complete" them, with the expectation beyond that, that the > > relationship will then basically be "closed" and essentially merely the > same > > as monogamous marriage, except there's 3 member instead of 2. If this = is > > your goal, you may be inviting a great deal of frustration on yourselve= s. > > If this is your goal, you may want to consider a broader and more > expansive > > approach to your polyamorous expression. For me personally, while I > might > > be very flattered and a bit affirmed when a "couple" approaches me with > the > > intention of exploring a triadic connection/relationship, I also feel t= he > > pressure and expectations that I'll be equally and simultaneously > interested > > and attracted to each of them. This actually rarely ever happens for > > anyone, and most definitely me. This isn't to suggest it something lik= e > > that may evolve over time, but if your polyamorous expression depends o= n > the > > specific poly-model, you may be waiting a very, very long time. You wi= ll > > likely hear the same thing from the majority of poly-folk who have been > at > > this for a while. Trust their experience and wisdom...they know. > > > > As a woman who is very open to entering into a sustainable triadic > > cohabiting relationship, I prefer to get to know each person > individually, > > and to feel that I am free to become romantically involved with only on= e > of > > them and perhaps merely have a caring friendship with the other. I > > certainly have no interest in a closed fMf marriage of 3....most "singl= e" > > polyamorous women I know don't. Many of us have existing relationships > with > > partners with whom we do not cohabit and we have no intention of > abandoning > > those. So the "closed" just wouldn't work for us. Personally, I alwa= ys > > want for myself and my partners (real or imagined at this point) to hav= e > the > > freedom to also enjoy loving, intimate relationships with > others....ideally > > being able to have some sort of friendly accord with those other > individuals > > at the very least as well. > > > > I know this is likely not what you want to hear, but I feel it's a good > > think to consider. > > > > Namaste': > > Tara Shakti-Ma )O( > > http://www.facebook.com/Tara.ShaktiMa.Dakini > > > > * Join us at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ExpansiveLoving/ - An > > internationally serving on-line group for spiritually and new-paradigm > > inclined poly-folk. We also have a companion group by the same name on > > Facebook. > > > > * New England Area Polyamory Network at > > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NEAPN/ - Serving as a central resource fo= r > > poly-folk in and around the New England area...also with a companion > group > > on Facebook. > > > > > > =A9 Copyright Tara Shakti-Ma 2010 > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: Geoffrey McCafferty > > To: uupoly-l@uupa.org > > Sent: Friday, May 21, 2010 10:06 PM > > Subject: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! > > > > > > Hello friends, > > > > my fianc=E9e and I are polyfidel and looking for a special lady to fil= l > the > > whole in our hearts. we have a solid relationship and lots of love to > give. > > we are considering beginning to attend a unitarian church. there is one > in > > our home town. > > > > Shalom, > > > > Geoffreu > > > > > > > > _______________________________________________ > > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about > yourself. > > UUPoly-L mailing list > > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > > _______________________________________________ > > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yoursel= f. > > UUPoly-L mailing list > > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > > > _______________________________________________ > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. > UUPoly-L mailing list > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > From aine.maire@gmail.com Sat May 22 11:12:42 2010 Received: from mail-qy0-f172.google.com (mail-qy0-f172.google.com [209.85.221.172]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4MFCgcZ024272 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 11:12:42 -0400 Received: by qyk2 with SMTP id 2so3165342qyk.20 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 08:12:39 -0700 (PDT) Received: by 10.224.87.214 with SMTP id x22mr2071079qal.72.1274541159209; Sat, 22 May 2010 08:12:39 -0700 (PDT) MIME-Version: 1.0 Received: by 10.229.236.195 with HTTP; Sat, 22 May 2010 08:12:09 -0700 (PDT) In-Reply-To: References: <457649.99322.qm@web114612.mail.gq1.yahoo.com> <52843901ACC44F4BA85DF42C04C47287@HamsaPC> From: aine.maire@gmail.com Message-ID: To: uupoly-l@uupa.org Content-Type: text/plain; charset=ISO-8859-1 X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 15:12:42 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 11:12:09 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 15:12:42 -0000 *My partner and I entered a good friendship with a woman who became our partner in a triad. For awhile, it was the three of us. After a certain point, I realized she was more drawn to him than to me and ended the triad. He lives with me, but he is still intimately involved with her. She and I continue to be close friends separate from their involvement. * ** *If we had actively sought that relationship dynamic, it would have never happened. Instead, the dynamic found us, and our respective relationships grew organically without being forced to fit into a package.* ** *We cannot dictate what is in our hearts or where they lead us. * ** *Geoffrey, if you persist in finding a female third, you will more than likely be looking for a long time.* ** *Best of luck to you and your fiancee.* ** *Annie:)* *I think dogs are the most amazing creatures. They give unconditional love. For me, they are the role model for being alive. ~Gilda Radner You think dogs will not be in heaven? I tell you, they will be there long before any of us. ~Robert Louis Stevenson * From union-consult@charter.net Sat May 22 12:16:24 2010 Received: from mta11.charter.net (mta11.charter.net [216.33.127.80]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4MGGOmA028378 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 12:16:24 -0400 Received: from imp09 ([10.20.200.9]) by mta11.charter.net (InterMail vM.7.09.02.04 201-2219-117-106-20090629) with ESMTP id <20100522161613.UWHD14520.mta11.charter.net@imp09> for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 12:16:13 -0400 Received: from kelly ([68.114.55.67]) by imp09 with smtp.charter.net id LgGC1e0081T0s0405gGDJM; Sat, 22 May 2010 12:16:13 -0400 X-Authority-Analysis: v=1.0 c=1 a=9L3x2eEEoXgA:10 a=q8OS1GolVHwA:10 a=8nJEP1OIZ-IA:10 a=50AUQRgSncMyaZW0978A:9 a=fUqWO-JEhLfd8Ii5a-dQD28P87AA:4 a=wPNLvfGTeEIA:10 Message-ID: <22C2530DCE2A4C80BA895A9229792F5B@kelly> From: "Union Consult" To: References: MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1"; reply-type=original Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Priority: 3 X-MSMail-Priority: Normal X-Mailer: Microsoft Outlook Express 6.00.2900.5931 X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.00.2900.5931 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 6 X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 16:16:25 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 12:16:09 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 16:16:25 -0000 Geofrrey wrote "fill the whole in our hearts" Sorry, but I can't hold out much hope for a triad based on such a mis-spelling. I mean "wholey moley" Folks, you're forgetting to cut off trailing messages again. From bear@sonic.net Sat May 22 12:49:51 2010 Received: from b.mail.sonic.net (b.mail.sonic.net [64.142.19.5]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4MGmi8a030439 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 12:49:51 -0400 Received: from [75.101.18.6] (dillingers.com [75.101.18.6]) (authenticated bits=0) by b.mail.sonic.net (8.13.8.Beta0-Sonic/8.13.7) with ESMTP id o4MGmdTI010126 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 09:48:44 -0700 From: Ray Dillinger To: uupoly-l@uupa.org In-Reply-To: <457649.99322.qm@web114612.mail.gq1.yahoo.com> References: <457649.99322.qm@web114612.mail.gq1.yahoo.com> Content-Type: text/plain; charset=utf-8 Message-Id: <1274546913.3576.24.camel@janus.pagansexcult.org> Mime-Version: 1.0 X-Mailer: Evolution 2.22.3.1 Content-Transfer-Encoding: 8bit Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 16:49:51 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 09:48:33 -0700 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 16:49:51 -0000 On Fri, 2010-05-21 at 19:06 -0700, Geoffrey McCafferty wrote: > Hello friends, > my fiancée and I are polyfidel and looking for a special lady > to fill the whole in our hearts. we have a solid relationship > and lots of love to give. we are considering beginning to > attend a unitarian church. there is one in our home town. Hi there. Firstly, a mention; this list probably isn't the right place for something that could be construed as a personal ad. Secondly: I don't think I've ever heard of this kind of thing working out for someone as a result of actively seeking it. YMMV, etc, but the intention to find a nonspecific "someone" doesn't usually help people get into relationships. If a relationship is a real possibility, my experience says that it's because the "someone" involved has become very *very* specific. Seriously, it's more productive to consider your feelings toward particular people whom you already both know than to seek out, get to know, and _hope_ to develop feelings for a stranger. Thirdly, have you or your fiancée been in a triple before? Do you actually know from experience how you can emotionally deal with it, or are you guessing-and-hoping at this point? Finally, you need to consider some possibilities. If and when you and your sweetie find a compatible third, and there's nothing, um, "wrong" with her to put it delicately, she will most likely have a long-term love or two already. This can go well or badly in more ways than can enumerate, but all of the "good" outcomes I can think of require consideration and respect on your part. This is food for thought, I hope. All that said, I wish you the best of luck. Bear From kal_el10@yahoo.com Sat May 22 12:55:09 2010 Received: from smtp122-mob.biz.mail.mud.yahoo.com (smtp122-mob.biz.mail.mud.yahoo.com [209.191.84.225]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with SMTP id o4MGs2tU031493 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 12:55:09 -0400 Received: (qmail 70365 invoked from network); 22 May 2010 16:54:02 -0000 Received: from bda-67-223-87-79.bise.na.blackberry.com (kal_el10@67.223.87.79 with xymcookie) by smtp122-mob.biz.mail.mud.yahoo.com with SMTP; 22 May 2010 09:54:02 -0700 PDT X-Yahoo-SMTP: lH8Di86swBA1f8L3gicnLQ6_Fw2Z X-YMail-OSG: osXSuM0VM1n1fUcnPQxgW1wngamIJg.R1HVm2MB1VxkNV6lX0Bl4o8OMUGMVPX4wTjXrOJjgbLxpPGNEO3S_drdBYQ4nMypZNhRbxENJm_v0OMXDTXtcV55O3E13lyxOLHbKM7B4ECNqnmoZAY9cEOL8OHwi0wN4yxB1hijjWw6usvenoN42QN60W5RWcBctSscLMErALpFA6OEbi6f_77rsriRMNcrBpLK6ZRms64oJfK09Jq4Dwvn0HXd44hFmVBlsnXnRwZCNANn5eYEmoOADgizSGijyvE8eOJrSnV0KqDlWlm0uGWgcwBLpzL43tD9Kdrxj1O.zT0Tn_UNy X-Yahoo-Newman-Property: ymail-3 X-rim-org-msg-ref-id: 572536587 Message-ID: <572536587-1274547240-cardhu_decombobulator_blackberry.rim.net-1052953772-@bda912.bisx.prod.on.blackberry> X-Priority: Normal Sensitivity: Normal Importance: Normal To: uupoly-l@uupa.org From: kal_el10@yahoo.com Content-Type: text/plain MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Transfer-Encoding: 8bit X-MIME-Autoconverted: from base64 to 8bit by msb.ernest-doss.org id o4MGs2tU031493 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 6 X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: kal_el10@yahoo.com, uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 16:55:10 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 16:54:08 +0000 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 16:55:10 -0000 I'm sure its just a spelling error here, which you and everyone is guilty of once in awhile. Pretty embarrassing calling them out on it here! Geoffrey, Just let it flow! It will take its own form organically. That's what I've learned, in poly and nonpoly and romantic and or friend relationships. ------Original Message------ From: Union Consult Sender: uupoly-l-bounces+kal_el10=yahoo.com@uupa.org To: uupoly-l@uupa.org ReplyTo: uupoly-l@uupa.org Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 6 Sent: May 22, 2010 9:16 AM Geofrrey wrote "fill the whole in our hearts" Sorry, but I can't hold out much hope for a triad based on such a mis-spelling. I mean "wholey moley" Folks, you're forgetting to cut off trailing messages again. _______________________________________________ The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. UUPoly-L mailing list UUPoly-L@uupa.org http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile From fantine@sonic.net Sat May 22 12:57:48 2010 Received: from a.mail.sonic.net (a.mail.sonic.net [64.142.16.245]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4MGueVN032069 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 12:57:47 -0400 Received: from FLOGGER3000 (75-101-18-7.dsl.static.sonic.net [75.101.18.7]) by a.mail.sonic.net (8.13.8.Beta0-Sonic/8.13.7) with ESMTP id o4MGudLU007825 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 09:56:40 -0700 From: "Fantine" To: Message-ID: MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="US-ASCII" X-Priority: 3 (Normal) X-MSMail-Priority: Normal X-Mailer: Microsoft Outlook, Build 10.0.6856 In-Reply-To: <52843901ACC44F4BA85DF42C04C47287@HamsaPC> Importance: Normal X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.00.2900.5931 Thread-Index: Acr5Vrmc2QIAsKqTTNe5rzqP4oa1YAAeNb5g Content-Transfer-Encoding: 8bit X-MIME-Autoconverted: from quoted-printable to 8bit by msb.ernest-doss.org id o4MGueVN032069 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 16:57:48 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 09:56:36 -0700 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 16:57:48 -0000 Sister, you speak for me (when I was single)! 'Cesca -----Original Message----- From: uupoly-l-bounces+fantine=sonic.net@uupa.org [mailto:uupoly-l-bounces+fantine=sonic.net@uupa.org] On Behalf Of Tara Shakti-Ma Sent: Friday, May 21, 2010 7:28 PM To: uupoly-l@uupa.org Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! Hi Geoffrey: Interestingly, this sort of aspiration recently came up on another list. I'll share here what I wrote there. As a "single/available" (in the sense I have no co-habiting partners) bisexual, polyamorous woman, I can speak from my own experience. .. From kal_el10@yahoo.com Sat May 22 13:17:16 2010 Received: from smtp124-mob.biz.mail.mud.yahoo.com (smtp124-mob.biz.mail.mud.yahoo.com [209.191.84.227]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with SMTP id o4MHG9l5001099 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 13:17:15 -0400 Received: (qmail 70860 invoked from network); 22 May 2010 17:16:08 -0000 Received: from bda-67-223-87-79.bise.na.blackberry.com (kal_el10@67.223.87.79 with xymcookie) by smtp124-mob.biz.mail.mud.yahoo.com with SMTP; 22 May 2010 10:16:08 -0700 PDT X-Yahoo-SMTP: lH8Di86swBA1f8L3gicnLQ6_Fw2Z X-YMail-OSG: B6A97WoVM1nFS4y0U.5iQt9m8YSGi7s.E3FZl.d9Gk9ldWComlentPqzkL5mMxUK6l1Z7U5jINPFS8Wj6.uUw2c8iahc7I70ckepagWm1nyJPmjJ4_6zEIkLekVElHetMZl6musrUuH6orR7lmZmNo175quhAkWe6U4J8qpn1KU3GUJGibJ6cxiO6EirQFMcnjD8HQz0e8awEpciFeszJjtQOnq3C1Nq.tF_y2HWm__2YqgihTg7c4draXEIxvPZQjc3MoaDEM6u4WaXNXkelOSemletTAFp12rV8LE6D..S.AnP8YCZBvrgGdeSrjEWSIZm__Y6Foo3L748E5fz X-Yahoo-Newman-Property: ymail-3 X-rim-org-msg-ref-id: 1332500644 Message-ID: <1332500644-1274548565-cardhu_decombobulator_blackberry.rim.net-557746084-@bda912.bisx.prod.on.blackberry> X-Priority: Normal Sensitivity: Normal Importance: Normal To: uupoly-l@uupa.org From: kal_el10@yahoo.com Content-Type: text/plain MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Transfer-Encoding: 8bit X-MIME-Autoconverted: from base64 to 8bit by msb.ernest-doss.org id o4MHG9l5001099 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 6 X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: kal_el10@yahoo.com, uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 17:17:16 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 17:16:13 +0000 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 17:17:16 -0000 Union, Ever hear the saying " next time you think you're perfect, try walking on water?" I'm not religious, but to see such posts ( doesn't sound like you were being funny here if that's the intention from your post), you wouldn't have dared have said that to me in person if I'd have made that error. Sounds like you need to take a look at yourself. ------Original Message------ From: Union Consult Sender: uupoly-l-bounces+kal_el10=yahoo.com@uupa.org To: uupoly-l@uupa.org ReplyTo: uupoly-l@uupa.org Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 6 Sent: May 22, 2010 9:16 AM Geofrrey wrote "fill the whole in our hearts" Sorry, but I can't hold out much hope for a triad based on such a mis-spelling. I mean "wholey moley" Folks, you're forgetting to cut off trailing messages again. _______________________________________________ The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. UUPoly-L mailing list UUPoly-L@uupa.org http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile From cwlee@post.harvard.edu Sat May 22 13:56:14 2010 Received: from elasmtp-junco.atl.sa.earthlink.net (elasmtp-junco.atl.sa.earthlink.net [209.86.89.63]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4MHuENx009639 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 13:56:14 -0400 Received: from [4.231.175.199] (helo=System4) by elasmtp-junco.atl.sa.earthlink.net with esmtpa (Exim 4.67) (envelope-from ) id 1OFsvl-0000Ba-OY; Sat, 22 May 2010 13:56:14 -0400 Message-ID: <259E88ECB067436A8932E2ED273E239C@System4> From: "CWLee" To: , References: <1332500644-1274548565-cardhu_decombobulator_blackberry.rim.net-557746084-@bda912.bisx.prod.on.blackberry> In-Reply-To: <1332500644-1274548565-cardhu_decombobulator_blackberry.rim.net-557746084-@bda912.bisx.prod.on.blackberry> MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1"; reply-type=original Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Priority: 3 X-MSMail-Priority: Normal Importance: Normal X-Mailer: Microsoft Windows Live Mail 14.0.8089.726 X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V14.0.8089.726 X-ELNK-Trace: 7141e3bbddc8a6d4f1b7fbad2ae65da374bf435c0eb9d4782674b71025f888d039ae9eec42b4e3bf7ef9f80aaf77e5a4350badd9bab72f9c350badd9bab72f9c X-Originating-IP: 4.231.175.199 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Spelling X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 17:56:14 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 10:56:06 -0700 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 17:56:14 -0000 An earlier poster wrote: > Sorry, but I can't hold out much hope for a triad based on > such a > mis-spelling. I mean "wholey moley" I used to tell my students that although most people won't point out spelling errors, they do not go un-noticed. If you move in circles where spelling errors are common and acceptable, then there is probably no harm. However, if you hope to be successful in business, government, or academia, be aware that those with power and influence around you - especially in middle and upper level management - will make unfavorable inferences about you based on your writing, especially your spelling. Best regards to all, Chuck Lee, looking back on decades of correcting college students' essay exams. ---------- CWLee Former slayer of dragons; practice now limited to sacred cows. Believing we should hire for quality, not quotas, and promote for performance, not preferences. From desmondravenstone@yahoo.com Sat May 22 16:03:18 2010 Received: from web50506.mail.re2.yahoo.com (web50506.mail.re2.yahoo.com [206.190.38.82]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with SMTP id o4MK3IvR019347 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 16:03:18 -0400 Received: (qmail 22749 invoked by uid 60001); 22 May 2010 20:03:18 -0000 Message-ID: <621688.21577.qm@web50506.mail.re2.yahoo.com> X-YMail-OSG: EVmAdpwVM1mnsopkH_yMn2s297OTCR9RqNoyzvRo4OI0h8K qk0eof1M1Ze4Q8rTIHGRARBKba_KgrcahOY4svsZFZKJI_XCybb.iHzqCHau wPXu0RUZFLe..lEiujuyqTRk4yJbB0G5D6zU.hB7_DCoX1.MT6fDfxpBrPZD EbBIUv4gvS4otefcZ_3LSq4eVJx8XkSuSZjpqOam_thQE8ltkCxjrXCZX51y K5J5L_xEUsZEsjyWtLJVZzLyVPgBWRZSkKrDjFFz3I6nzscY4DLGscNYFgC8 - Received: from [72.59.15.26] by web50506.mail.re2.yahoo.com via HTTP; Sat, 22 May 2010 13:03:18 PDT X-Mailer: YahooMailClassic/11.0.8 YahooMailWebService/0.8.103.269680 From: Desmond Ravenstone To: uupoly-l@uupa.org In-Reply-To: <259E88ECB067436A8932E2ED273E239C@System4> MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset=iso-8859-1 Content-Transfer-Encoding: 8bit X-MIME-Autoconverted: from quoted-printable to 8bit by msb.ernest-doss.org id o4MK3IvR019347 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Spelling X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 20:03:19 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 13:03:18 -0700 (PDT) X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 20:03:19 -0000 You know, while it's a technical error, it could also be seen as a pun or double entendre... Desmond Ravenstone "What you call sin, I call the great spirit of love, which takes a thousand forms..." http://ravenstonesreflections.blogspot.com http://www.myspace.com/desmond_ravenstone --- On Sat, 5/22/10, CWLee wrote: > From: CWLee > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Spelling > To: kal_el10@yahoo.com, uupoly-l@uupa.org > Date: Saturday, May 22, 2010, 1:56 PM > > An earlier poster wrote: > > > Sorry, but I can't hold out much hope for a triad > based on > > such a > > mis-spelling.  I mean "wholey moley" > > I used to tell my students that although most people won't > > point out spelling errors, they do not go un-noticed.  > If > you move in circles where spelling errors are common and > acceptable, then there is probably no harm.  However, > if you > hope to be successful in business, government, or academia, > > be aware that those with power and influence around you - > especially in middle and upper level management - will make > > unfavorable inferences about you based on your writing, > especially your spelling. > > Best regards to all, Chuck Lee, looking back on decades of > > correcting college students' essay exams. > ---------- > CWLee > Former slayer of dragons; practice now limited to sacred > cows.  Believing we should hire for quality, not > quotas, and > promote for performance, not preferences. > > > _______________________________________________ > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal > about yourself. > UUPoly-L mailing list > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > From aine.maire@gmail.com Sat May 22 18:48:47 2010 Received: from mail-qy0-f172.google.com (mail-qy0-f172.google.com [209.85.221.172]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4MMmltU003223 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 18:48:47 -0400 Received: by qyk2 with SMTP id 2so3653178qyk.20 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 15:48:46 -0700 (PDT) Received: by 10.224.19.24 with SMTP id y24mr2275685qaa.59.1274568526087; Sat, 22 May 2010 15:48:46 -0700 (PDT) MIME-Version: 1.0 Received: by 10.229.236.195 with HTTP; Sat, 22 May 2010 15:48:16 -0700 (PDT) In-Reply-To: <259E88ECB067436A8932E2ED273E239C@System4> References: <1332500644-1274548565-cardhu_decombobulator_blackberry.rim.net-557746084-@bda912.bisx.prod.on.blackberry> <259E88ECB067436A8932E2ED273E239C@System4> From: aine.maire@gmail.com Message-ID: To: uupoly-l@uupa.org Content-Type: text/plain; charset=ISO-8859-1 X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Spelling X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 22:48:47 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 18:48:16 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 22:48:47 -0000 *Chuck, m**ost of my professors couldn't spell as well as I. I had one who took points off galore for misplaced commas, but didn't notice obvious spelling errors.* ** *Desmond, I wondered about the pun part, as well. Even if it was a spelling mistake, oh well. Nobody's perfect.* ** *Annie:)* *I think dogs are the most amazing creatures. They give unconditional love. For me, they are the role model for being alive. ~Gilda Radner You think dogs will not be in heaven? I tell you, they will be there long before any of us. ~Robert Louis Stevenson * On Sat, May 22, 2010 at 13:56, CWLee wrote: > > An earlier poster wrote: > > > Sorry, but I can't hold out much hope for a triad based on > > such a > > mis-spelling. I mean "wholey moley" > > I used to tell my students that although most people won't > point out spelling errors, they do not go un-noticed. If > you move in circles where spelling errors are common and > acceptable, then there is probably no harm. However, if you > hope to be successful in business, government, or academia, > be aware that those with power and influence around you - > especially in middle and upper level management - will make > unfavorable inferences about you based on your writing, > especially your spelling. > > Best regards to all, Chuck Lee, looking back on decades of > correcting college students' essay exams. > ---------- > CWLee > Former slayer of dragons; practice now limited to sacred > cows. Believing we should hire for quality, not quotas, and > promote for performance, not preferences. > > > _______________________________________________ > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. > UUPoly-L mailing list > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > From valerie@valeriewhite.org Sat May 22 18:52:47 2010 Received: from cosmos.phy.tufts.edu (cosmos.phy.tufts.edu [130.64.83.16]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4MMox2X004005 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 18:52:35 -0400 Received: from p92-11.acedsl.com ([66.114.92.11]:59286 helo=neptune.place.org) by cosmos.phy.tufts.edu with esmtp (Exim 4.63) (envelope-from ) id 1OFxX1-0003wy-CW for uupoly-l@uupa.org; Sat, 22 May 2010 18:50:59 -0400 Received: from [192.168.0.247] (port=4974 helo=VW.valeriewhite.org) by neptune.place.org with esmtp (Exim 4.69) (envelope-from ) id 1OFxX1-0007XZ-1G for uupoly-l@uupa.org; Sat, 22 May 2010 18:50:59 -0400 Message-Id: <7.0.1.0.2.20100522184819.054bf430@valeriewhite.org> X-Mailer: QUALCOMM Windows Eudora Version 7.0.1.0 To: uupoly-l@uupa.org From: Valerie White In-Reply-To: References: <457649.99322.qm@web114612.mail.gq1.yahoo.com> <52843901ACC44F4BA85DF42C04C47287@HamsaPC> Mime-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="us-ascii"; format=flowed X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 22:52:48 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 18:49:06 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 22:52:48 -0000 I heard a bi-activist remark, "For all you couples out there looking for a hot bi babe . . . there are only twelve of them and they are very busy." Valerie From kyttewynpeny@gmail.com Sat May 22 19:01:14 2010 Received: from mail-gy0-f175.google.com (mail-gy0-f175.google.com [209.85.160.175]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4MN1ESD006245 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 19:01:14 -0400 Received: by gya1 with SMTP id 1so485885gya.20 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 16:01:12 -0700 (PDT) MIME-Version: 1.0 Received: by 10.100.243.18 with SMTP id q18mr4299747anh.166.1274569271942; Sat, 22 May 2010 16:01:11 -0700 (PDT) Received: by 10.100.213.10 with HTTP; Sat, 22 May 2010 16:01:11 -0700 (PDT) In-Reply-To: <7.0.1.0.2.20100522184819.054bf430@valeriewhite.org> References: <457649.99322.qm@web114612.mail.gq1.yahoo.com> <52843901ACC44F4BA85DF42C04C47287@HamsaPC> <7.0.1.0.2.20100522184819.054bf430@valeriewhite.org> Message-ID: From: Barbara Allen To: uupoly-l@uupa.org Content-Type: text/plain; charset=ISO-8859-1 X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 23:01:15 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 18:01:11 -0500 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 23:01:15 -0000 OMG! Valerie, you made me laugh out loud!! I will so be stealing that!! -Kytte/Babs From cwlee@post.harvard.edu Sat May 22 19:01:43 2010 Received: from elasmtp-junco.atl.sa.earthlink.net (elasmtp-junco.atl.sa.earthlink.net [209.86.89.63]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4MN1g2X006768 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 19:01:43 -0400 Received: from [4.231.170.206] (helo=System4) by elasmtp-junco.atl.sa.earthlink.net with esmtpa (Exim 4.67) (envelope-from ) id 1OFxhO-0004af-9y for uupoly-l@uupa.org; Sat, 22 May 2010 19:01:43 -0400 Message-ID: <1EC2E4A88AAB40F285B92A596B5FAE33@System4> From: "CWLee" To: References: <1332500644-1274548565-cardhu_decombobulator_blackberry.rim.net-557746084-@bda912.bisx.prod.on.blackberry><259E88ECB067436A8932E2ED273E239C@System4> In-Reply-To: MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1"; reply-type=original Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Priority: 3 X-MSMail-Priority: Normal Importance: Normal X-Mailer: Microsoft Windows Live Mail 14.0.8089.726 X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V14.0.8089.726 X-ELNK-Trace: 7141e3bbddc8a6d4f1b7fbad2ae65da374bf435c0eb9d4782674b71025f888d0bfba9de0d79bb6bf8b0a453a6bdf96b8350badd9bab72f9c350badd9bab72f9c X-Originating-IP: 4.231.170.206 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Spelling X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 23:01:43 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 16:01:34 -0700 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 23:01:43 -0000 Annie, I agree, even some professors can't spell very well. Punctuation is another area, but one more for disagreement than correction. I always preferred Fowler's, but others considered Strunk & White to be the final authority. Recent PhDs leaned toward Turabian. However, I think all my colleagues would object to asterisks thrown around almost randomly. :-) Best regards to all, Chuck Lee. ========================== -------------------------------------------------- From: Sent: Saturday, May 22, 2010 3:48 PM To: Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Spelling > *Chuck, m**ost of my professors couldn't spell as well as > I. I had one who > took points off galore for misplaced commas, but didn't > notice obvious > spelling errors.* > ** > *Desmond, I wondered about the pun part, as well. Even if > it was a spelling > mistake, oh well. Nobody's perfect.* > ** > *Annie:)* > > > *I think dogs are the most amazing creatures. They give > unconditional love. > For me, they are the role model for being alive. > ~Gilda Radner > > You think dogs will not be in heaven? I tell you, they > will be there long > before any of us. > ~Robert Louis Stevenson > > * > On Sat, May 22, 2010 at 13:56, CWLee > wrote: > >> >> An earlier poster wrote: >> >> > Sorry, but I can't hold out much hope for a triad based >> > on >> > such a >> > mis-spelling. I mean "wholey moley" >> >> I used to tell my students that although most people >> won't >> point out spelling errors, they do not go un-noticed. If >> you move in circles where spelling errors are common and >> acceptable, then there is probably no harm. However, if >> you >> hope to be successful in business, government, or >> academia, >> be aware that those with power and influence around you - >> especially in middle and upper level management - will >> make >> unfavorable inferences about you based on your writing, >> especially your spelling. >> >> Best regards to all, Chuck Lee, looking back on decades >> of >> correcting college students' essay exams. >> ---------- >> CWLee >> Former slayer of dragons; practice now limited to sacred >> cows. Believing we should hire for quality, not quotas, >> and >> promote for performance, not preferences. >> >> >> _______________________________________________ >> The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. >> Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal >> about yourself. >> UUPoly-L mailing list >> UUPoly-L@uupa.org >> http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l >> > _______________________________________________ > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal > about yourself. > UUPoly-L mailing list > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l From dakinitara@tantrikapath.com Sat May 22 19:01:54 2010 Received: from vms173001pub.verizon.net (vms173001pub.verizon.net [206.46.173.1]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4MN0l4x006186 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 19:01:54 -0400 Received: from HamsaPC ([unknown] [71.173.162.4]) by vms173001.mailsrvcs.net (Sun Java(tm) System Messaging Server 7u2-7.02 32bit (built Apr 16 2009)) with ESMTPA id <0L2U00283FVSDK46@vms173001.mailsrvcs.net> for uupoly-l@uupa.org; Sat, 22 May 2010 17:59:57 -0500 (CDT) Message-id: From: "Tara Shakti-Ma" To: References: <457649.99322.qm@web114612.mail.gq1.yahoo.com> In-reply-to: <457649.99322.qm@web114612.mail.gq1.yahoo.com> MIME-version: 1.0 X-Priority: 3 X-MSMail-priority: Normal X-Mailer: Microsoft Windows Mail 6.0.6002.18197 X-MIMEOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.0.6002.18197 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-8859-1" Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 23:01:54 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 18:59:53 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 23:01:54 -0000 Hi Geoffrey: I'd like to offer you 3 very valuable resources. I can't recommend = them enough. The first 2 are free and found on line! Easy! The first is Anita Wagner's http://www.practicalpolyamory.com/ Really = take advantage of the opportunity to read some really great = poly-thought. There are several really good reads there but you may do = well to start with what you can find here. = http://www.practicalpolyamory.com/downloadabledocuments.html The second is Franklin Veaux's http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html Read = *everything*! Good stuff. The third is a really great book I think every "couple" looking to "add = a third" should read. "Polyamory, Roadmaps for the Clueless and = Hopeful", but Anthony Ravenscroft. This guy is wittily = self-deprecating, and has as wealth of information to share out of his = trial and error experience. He actually spends a good deal of time off = and on throughout the book addressing the idea of opening a preexisting = relationship, and offers some really sound reality checks about adding = that "third". He's not against it and he doesn't say it's impossible. = He offers some excellent insights into the whole mind set and what works = and what doesn't. I wish you the best, and encourage you to really take your time simply = getting to know some poly-folk before you try to proceed to far. Namaste': Tara ----- Original Message -----=20 From: Geoffrey McCafferty=20 To: uupoly-l@uupa.org=20 Sent: Friday, May 21, 2010 10:06 PM Subject: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! Hello friends,=20 my fianc=E9e and I are polyfidel and looking for a special lady to = fill the whole in our hearts. we have a solid relationship and lots of = love to give. we are considering beginning to attend a unitarian church. = there is one in our home town. Shalom, Geoffreu =20 _______________________________________________ The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about = yourself. UUPoly-L mailing list UUPoly-L@uupa.org http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l From dakinitara@tantrikapath.com Sat May 22 19:13:35 2010 Received: from vms173011pub.verizon.net (vms173011pub.verizon.net [206.46.173.11]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4MNCTSg009534 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 19:13:35 -0400 Received: from HamsaPC ([unknown] [71.173.162.4]) by vms173011.mailsrvcs.net (Sun Java(tm) System Messaging Server 7u2-7.02 32bit (built Apr 16 2009)) with ESMTPA id <0L2U005YTGF8LHK2@vms173011.mailsrvcs.net> for uupoly-l@uupa.org; Sat, 22 May 2010 18:11:38 -0500 (CDT) Message-id: From: "Tara Shakti-Ma" To: References: <457649.99322.qm@web114612.mail.gq1.yahoo.com> <52843901ACC44F4BA85DF42C04C47287@HamsaPC> <7.0.1.0.2.20100522184819.054bf430@valeriewhite.org> In-reply-to: <7.0.1.0.2.20100522184819.054bf430@valeriewhite.org> MIME-version: 1.0 X-Priority: 3 X-MSMail-priority: Normal X-Mailer: Microsoft Windows Mail 6.0.6002.18197 X-MIMEOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.0.6002.18197 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-8859-1" Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] HBBs...aaaaagain (was Hello everyone!!) X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 23:13:35 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 19:11:33 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 23:13:35 -0000 Valerie.....first........I had tea in my mouth when I read that. Just = got done drying my keyboard. =20 Second...I'm hot, I'm bi, and I guess I'm a babe, and I'm not so busy = actually. I have one lover and he has.......uuuuummmmmmmmmm.......lemee = see..............on my second hand now...........uh.....oh yea.....7 and = counting. So I'm *quite* available. I just don't want to complete = anyone, or fill the hole in their lives, or be in a closed = relationship....ok...may if there were 10 or 15. :-P But 3?!?!? = Ah, no. Okay........wait......truthfully I could never be in a closed = relationship. I want to always feel free to love and act on that love = as I feel genuinely moved to do....even if no one comes along that rings = my chimes, I want to maintain that level of personal sovereignty. :-) Warmly: Tara =20 ----- Original Message -----=20 From: Valerie White=20 To: uupoly-l@uupa.org=20 Sent: Saturday, May 22, 2010 6:49 PM Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! I heard a bi-activist remark, "For all you couples out there looking=20 for a hot bi babe . . . there are only twelve of them and they are = very busy." Valerie -l From union-consult@charter.net Sat May 22 19:22:57 2010 Received: from mta11.charter.net (mta11.charter.net [216.33.127.80]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4MNMvEn011457 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 19:22:57 -0400 Received: from imp11 ([10.20.200.11]) by mta11.charter.net (InterMail vM.7.09.02.04 201-2219-117-106-20090629) with ESMTP id <20100522232247.ALL14520.mta11.charter.net@imp11> for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 19:22:47 -0400 Received: from kelly ([68.114.55.67]) by imp11 with smtp.charter.net id LnNi1e0081T0s0405nNlJQ; Sat, 22 May 2010 19:22:45 -0400 X-Authority-Analysis: v=1.0 c=1 a=9L3x2eEEoXgA:10 a=q8OS1GolVHwA:10 a=8nJEP1OIZ-IA:10 a=by0xt6oMHCyOFwMhcj4A:9 a=FGuY88nRoF-Ba-B_YJ-Ug6sh4HUA:4 a=wPNLvfGTeEIA:10 Message-ID: From: "Union Consult" To: References: MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1"; reply-type=original Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Priority: 3 X-MSMail-Priority: Normal X-Mailer: Microsoft Outlook Express 6.00.2900.5931 X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.00.2900.5931 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 7 X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 23:22:57 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 19:17:20 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 23:22:57 -0000 Geoffrey wrote: I'm sure its just a spelling error here, which you and everyone is guilty of once in awhile. Pretty embarrassing calling them out on it here! Gosh, and I thought I was doing it with some humor. Oh, well! From union-consult@charter.net Sat May 22 19:23:06 2010 Received: from mta11.charter.net (mta11.charter.net [216.33.127.80]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4MNN6na011733 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 19:23:06 -0400 Received: from imp11 ([10.20.200.11]) by mta11.charter.net (InterMail vM.7.09.02.04 201-2219-117-106-20090629) with ESMTP id <20100522232256.AND14520.mta11.charter.net@imp11> for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 19:22:56 -0400 Received: from kelly ([68.114.55.67]) by imp11 with smtp.charter.net id LnNi1e0081T0s0405nNtKR; Sat, 22 May 2010 19:22:53 -0400 X-Authority-Analysis: v=1.0 c=1 a=flX33rHYnZUA:10 a=hO-oPbc3tlwA:10 a=8nJEP1OIZ-IA:10 a=IVgIdVCEAAAA:8 a=CjxXgO3LAAAA:8 a=pGLkceISAAAA:8 a=hOpmn2quAAAA:8 a=mHr6GJ5fAAAA:8 a=PIxf7zQkAAAA:8 a=q0ytO7zgAAAA:8 a=RuyKgJuBAAAA:8 a=cNaDbDX8AAAA:8 a=Ommlq3HkaI3cpvqFIoEA:9 a=NxMGZ5vyvjDuhJ8fedwA:7 a=MiODHIrdoS_mWHNb51-aChF237MA:4 a=wPNLvfGTeEIA:10 a=Cbt47AKeNSMA:10 a=qinFCF79kdEA:10 a=3eoJJSWtpq8A:10 a=rC2wZJ5BpNYA:10 a=MSl-tDqOz04A:10 a=hUswqBWy9Q8A:10 a=PPoi31BriXMA:10 a=gA6IeH5FQcgA:10 a=NWVoK91CQyQA:10 a=IXcnvTrVLrkRxjkD:21 a=7qYZiVqaxTFjwDkC:21 Message-ID: <321FE2AD9F9448569E49E2B4DEA42313@kelly> From: "Union Consult" To: References: MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1"; reply-type=original Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Priority: 3 X-MSMail-Priority: Normal X-Mailer: Microsoft Outlook Express 6.00.2900.5931 X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.00.2900.5931 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 7 "spelling errors" X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 23:23:06 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 19:22:39 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 23:23:06 -0000 Geofrey wrote: "Ever hear the saying " next time you think you're perfect, try walking on water?" I'm not religious, but to see such posts ( doesn't sound like you were being funny here if that's the intention from your post), you wouldn't have dared have said that to me in person if I'd have made that error. Sounds like you need to take a look at yourself. " Yes I have heard it, and again, my post was intended to be humorous, as in I wrote "Wholly Moley" instead of "Holey Moley" and I would have certainly "dared" or "double dared" to say it in person, face to face and all that. Your assignment is to find out what a "Moley" is and report back to us! ----- Original Message ----- From: To: Sent: Saturday, May 22, 2010 7:01 PM Subject: UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 7 > Send UUPoly-L mailing list submissions to > uupoly-l@uupa.org > > To subscribe or unsubscribe via the World Wide Web, visit > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > or, via email, send a message with subject or body 'help' to > uupoly-l-request@uupa.org > > You can reach the person managing the list at > uupoly-l-owner@uupa.org > > When replying, please edit your Subject line so it is more specific > than "Re: Contents of UUPoly-L digest..." > > > Today's Topics: > > 1. Re: UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 6 (Union Consult) > 2. Re: Hello everyone!! (Ray Dillinger) > 3. Re: UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 6 (kal_el10@yahoo.com) > 4. Re: Hello everyone!! (Fantine) > 5. Re: UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 6 (kal_el10@yahoo.com) > 6. Re: Spelling (CWLee) > 7. Re: Spelling (Desmond Ravenstone) > 8. Re: Spelling (aine.maire@gmail.com) > 9. Re: Hello everyone!! (Valerie White) > 10. Re: Hello everyone!! (Barbara Allen) > 11. Re: Spelling (CWLee) > > > ---------------------------------------------------------------------- > > Message: 1 > Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 12:16:09 -0400 > From: "Union Consult" > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 6 > To: > Message-ID: <22C2530DCE2A4C80BA895A9229792F5B@kelly> > Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1"; > reply-type=original > > Geofrrey wrote "fill the whole in our hearts" > > Sorry, but I can't hold out much hope for a triad based on such a > mis-spelling. I mean "wholey moley" > > Folks, you're forgetting to cut off trailing messages again. > > > > > ------------------------------ > > Message: 2 > Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 09:48:33 -0700 > From: Ray Dillinger > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! > To: uupoly-l@uupa.org > Message-ID: <1274546913.3576.24.camel@janus.pagansexcult.org> > Content-Type: text/plain; charset=utf-8 > > On Fri, 2010-05-21 at 19:06 -0700, Geoffrey McCafferty wrote: >> Hello friends, > > >> my fianc?e and I are polyfidel and looking for a special lady >> to fill the whole in our hearts. we have a solid relationship >> and lots of love to give. we are considering beginning to >> attend a unitarian church. there is one in our home town. > > Hi there. > > Firstly, a mention; this list probably isn't the right place for > something that could be construed as a personal ad. > > Secondly: I don't think I've ever heard of this kind of thing > working out for someone as a result of actively seeking it. YMMV, > etc, but the intention to find a nonspecific "someone" doesn't > usually help people get into relationships. If a relationship > is a real possibility, my experience says that it's because the > "someone" involved has become very *very* specific. Seriously, > it's more productive to consider your feelings toward particular > people whom you already both know than to seek out, get to know, > and _hope_ to develop feelings for a stranger. > > Thirdly, have you or your fianc?e been in a triple before? Do > you actually know from experience how you can emotionally deal > with it, or are you guessing-and-hoping at this point? > > Finally, you need to consider some possibilities. If and when > you and your sweetie find a compatible third, and there's nothing, > um, "wrong" with her to put it delicately, she will most likely > have a long-term love or two already. This can go well or > badly in more ways than can enumerate, but all of the "good" > outcomes I can think of require consideration and respect on > your part. This is food for thought, I hope. > > All that said, I wish you the best of luck. > > Bear > > > > > > > > > > > ------------------------------ > > Message: 3 > Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 16:54:08 +0000 > From: kal_el10@yahoo.com > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 6 > To: uupoly-l@uupa.org > Message-ID: > <572536587-1274547240-cardhu_decombobulator_blackberry.rim.net-1052953772-@bda912.bisx.prod.on.blackberry> > > Content-Type: text/plain > > I'm sure its just a spelling error here, which you and everyone is guilty > of once in awhile. Pretty embarrassing calling them out on it here! > > Geoffrey, > > Just let it flow! It will take its own form organically. That's what I've > learned, in poly and nonpoly and romantic and or friend relationships. > ------Original Message------ > From: Union Consult > Sender: uupoly-l-bounces+kal_el10=yahoo.com@uupa.org > To: uupoly-l@uupa.org > ReplyTo: uupoly-l@uupa.org > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 6 > Sent: May 22, 2010 9:16 AM > > Geofrrey wrote "fill the whole in our hearts" > > Sorry, but I can't hold out much hope for a triad based on such a > mis-spelling. I mean "wholey moley" > > Folks, you're forgetting to cut off trailing messages again. > > > _______________________________________________ > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. > UUPoly-L mailing list > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > > > Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile > > > > ------------------------------ > > Message: 4 > Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 09:56:36 -0700 > From: "Fantine" > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! > To: > Message-ID: > Content-Type: text/plain; charset="US-ASCII" > > Sister, you speak for me (when I was single)! > 'Cesca > > -----Original Message----- > From: uupoly-l-bounces+fantine=sonic.net@uupa.org > [mailto:uupoly-l-bounces+fantine=sonic.net@uupa.org] On > Behalf Of Tara Shakti-Ma > Sent: Friday, May 21, 2010 7:28 PM > To: uupoly-l@uupa.org > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! > > Hi Geoffrey: > > Interestingly, this sort of aspiration recently came up > on another list. I'll share here what I wrote there. > > As a "single/available" (in the sense I have no > co-habiting partners) bisexual, polyamorous woman, I > can speak from my own experience. .. > > > > > ------------------------------ > > Message: 5 > Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 17:16:13 +0000 > From: kal_el10@yahoo.com > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 6 > To: uupoly-l@uupa.org > Message-ID: > <1332500644-1274548565-cardhu_decombobulator_blackberry.rim.net-557746084-@bda912.bisx.prod.on.blackberry> > > Content-Type: text/plain > > Union, > > Ever hear the saying " next time you think you're perfect, try walking on > water?" > > I'm not religious, but to see such posts ( doesn't sound like you were > being funny here if that's the intention from your post), you wouldn't > have dared have said that to me in person if I'd have made that error. > Sounds like you need to take a look at yourself. > ------Original Message------ > From: Union Consult > Sender: uupoly-l-bounces+kal_el10=yahoo.com@uupa.org > To: uupoly-l@uupa.org > ReplyTo: uupoly-l@uupa.org > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 6 > Sent: May 22, 2010 9:16 AM > > Geofrrey wrote "fill the whole in our hearts" > > Sorry, but I can't hold out much hope for a triad based on such a > mis-spelling. I mean "wholey moley" > > Folks, you're forgetting to cut off trailing messages again. > > > _______________________________________________ > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. > UUPoly-L mailing list > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > > > Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile > > > > ------------------------------ > > Message: 6 > Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 10:56:06 -0700 > From: "CWLee" > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Spelling > To: , > Message-ID: <259E88ECB067436A8932E2ED273E239C@System4> > Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1"; > reply-type=original > > > An earlier poster wrote: > >> Sorry, but I can't hold out much hope for a triad based on >> such a >> mis-spelling. I mean "wholey moley" > > I used to tell my students that although most people won't > point out spelling errors, they do not go un-noticed. If > you move in circles where spelling errors are common and > acceptable, then there is probably no harm. However, if you > hope to be successful in business, government, or academia, > be aware that those with power and influence around you - > especially in middle and upper level management - will make > unfavorable inferences about you based on your writing, > especially your spelling. > > Best regards to all, Chuck Lee, looking back on decades of > correcting college students' essay exams. > ---------- > CWLee > Former slayer of dragons; practice now limited to sacred > cows. Believing we should hire for quality, not quotas, and > promote for performance, not preferences. > > > > > ------------------------------ > > Message: 7 > Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 13:03:18 -0700 (PDT) > From: Desmond Ravenstone > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Spelling > To: uupoly-l@uupa.org > Message-ID: <621688.21577.qm@web50506.mail.re2.yahoo.com> > Content-Type: text/plain; charset=iso-8859-1 > > You know, while it's a technical error, it could also be seen as a pun or > double entendre... > > Desmond Ravenstone > > "What you call sin, I call the great spirit of love, which takes a > thousand forms..." > > http://ravenstonesreflections.blogspot.com > http://www.myspace.com/desmond_ravenstone > > > --- On Sat, 5/22/10, CWLee wrote: > >> From: CWLee >> Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Spelling >> To: kal_el10@yahoo.com, uupoly-l@uupa.org >> Date: Saturday, May 22, 2010, 1:56 PM >> >> An earlier poster wrote: >> >> > Sorry, but I can't hold out much hope for a triad >> based on >> > such a >> > mis-spelling.? I mean "wholey moley" >> >> I used to tell my students that although most people won't >> >> point out spelling errors, they do not go un-noticed.? >> If >> you move in circles where spelling errors are common and >> acceptable, then there is probably no harm.? However, >> if you >> hope to be successful in business, government, or academia, >> >> be aware that those with power and influence around you - >> especially in middle and upper level management - will make >> >> unfavorable inferences about you based on your writing, >> especially your spelling. >> >> Best regards to all, Chuck Lee, looking back on decades of >> >> correcting college students' essay exams. >> ---------- >> CWLee >> Former slayer of dragons; practice now limited to sacred >> cows.? Believing we should hire for quality, not >> quotas, and >> promote for performance, not preferences. >> >> >> _______________________________________________ >> The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. >> Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal >> about yourself. >> UUPoly-L mailing list >> UUPoly-L@uupa.org >> http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l >> > > > > > > > ------------------------------ > > Message: 8 > Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 18:48:16 -0400 > From: aine.maire@gmail.com > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Spelling > To: uupoly-l@uupa.org > Message-ID: > > Content-Type: text/plain; charset=ISO-8859-1 > > *Chuck, m**ost of my professors couldn't spell as well as I. I had one who > took points off galore for misplaced commas, but didn't notice obvious > spelling errors.* > ** > *Desmond, I wondered about the pun part, as well. Even if it was a > spelling > mistake, oh well. Nobody's perfect.* > ** > *Annie:)* > > > *I think dogs are the most amazing creatures. They give unconditional > love. > For me, they are the role model for being alive. > ~Gilda Radner > > You think dogs will not be in heaven? I tell you, they will be there long > before any of us. > ~Robert Louis Stevenson > > * > On Sat, May 22, 2010 at 13:56, CWLee wrote: > >> >> An earlier poster wrote: >> >> > Sorry, but I can't hold out much hope for a triad based on >> > such a >> > mis-spelling. I mean "wholey moley" >> >> I used to tell my students that although most people won't >> point out spelling errors, they do not go un-noticed. If >> you move in circles where spelling errors are common and >> acceptable, then there is probably no harm. However, if you >> hope to be successful in business, government, or academia, >> be aware that those with power and influence around you - >> especially in middle and upper level management - will make >> unfavorable inferences about you based on your writing, >> especially your spelling. >> >> Best regards to all, Chuck Lee, looking back on decades of >> correcting college students' essay exams. >> ---------- >> CWLee >> Former slayer of dragons; practice now limited to sacred >> cows. Believing we should hire for quality, not quotas, and >> promote for performance, not preferences. >> >> >> _______________________________________________ >> The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. >> Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. >> UUPoly-L mailing list >> UUPoly-L@uupa.org >> http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l >> > > > ------------------------------ > > Message: 9 > Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 18:49:06 -0400 > From: Valerie White > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! > To: uupoly-l@uupa.org > Message-ID: <7.0.1.0.2.20100522184819.054bf430@valeriewhite.org> > Content-Type: text/plain; charset="us-ascii"; format=flowed > > I heard a bi-activist remark, "For all you couples out there looking > for a hot bi babe . . . there are only twelve of them and they are very > busy." > > Valerie > > ------------------------------ > > Message: 10 > Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 18:01:11 -0500 > From: Barbara Allen > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! > To: uupoly-l@uupa.org > Message-ID: > > Content-Type: text/plain; charset=ISO-8859-1 > > OMG! Valerie, you made me laugh out loud!! I will so be stealing that!! > > > -Kytte/Babs > > > ------------------------------ > > Message: 11 > Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 16:01:34 -0700 > From: "CWLee" > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Spelling > To: > Message-ID: <1EC2E4A88AAB40F285B92A596B5FAE33@System4> > Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1"; > reply-type=original > > Annie, > > I agree, even some professors can't spell very well. > Punctuation is another area, but one more for disagreement > than correction. I always preferred Fowler's, but others > considered Strunk & White to be the final authority. Recent > PhDs leaned toward Turabian. > > However, I think all my colleagues would object to asterisks > thrown around almost randomly. :-) > > Best regards to all, Chuck Lee. > > ========================== > > -------------------------------------------------- > From: > Sent: Saturday, May 22, 2010 3:48 PM > To: > Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Spelling > >> *Chuck, m**ost of my professors couldn't spell as well as >> I. I had one who >> took points off galore for misplaced commas, but didn't >> notice obvious >> spelling errors.* >> ** >> *Desmond, I wondered about the pun part, as well. Even if >> it was a spelling >> mistake, oh well. Nobody's perfect.* >> ** >> *Annie:)* >> >> >> *I think dogs are the most amazing creatures. They give >> unconditional love. >> For me, they are the role model for being alive. >> ~Gilda Radner >> >> You think dogs will not be in heaven? I tell you, they >> will be there long >> before any of us. >> ~Robert Louis Stevenson >> >> * >> On Sat, May 22, 2010 at 13:56, CWLee >> wrote: >> >>> >>> An earlier poster wrote: >>> >>> > Sorry, but I can't hold out much hope for a triad based >>> > on >>> > such a >>> > mis-spelling. I mean "wholey moley" >>> >>> I used to tell my students that although most people >>> won't >>> point out spelling errors, they do not go un-noticed. If >>> you move in circles where spelling errors are common and >>> acceptable, then there is probably no harm. However, if >>> you >>> hope to be successful in business, government, or >>> academia, >>> be aware that those with power and influence around you - >>> especially in middle and upper level management - will >>> make >>> unfavorable inferences about you based on your writing, >>> especially your spelling. >>> >>> Best regards to all, Chuck Lee, looking back on decades >>> of >>> correcting college students' essay exams. >>> ---------- >>> CWLee >>> Former slayer of dragons; practice now limited to sacred >>> cows. Believing we should hire for quality, not quotas, >>> and >>> promote for performance, not preferences. >>> >>> >>> _______________________________________________ >>> The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. >>> Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal >>> about yourself. >>> UUPoly-L mailing list >>> UUPoly-L@uupa.org >>> http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l >>> >> _______________________________________________ >> The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. >> Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal >> about yourself. >> UUPoly-L mailing list >> UUPoly-L@uupa.org >> http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > > > > ------------------------------ > > _______________________________________________ > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. > UUPoly-L mailing list > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > > > End of UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 7 > *************************************** From union-consult@charter.net Sat May 22 19:24:10 2010 Received: from mta11.charter.net (mta11.charter.net [216.33.127.80]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4MNO9xN012570 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 19:24:10 -0400 Received: from imp09 ([10.20.200.9]) by mta11.charter.net (InterMail vM.7.09.02.04 201-2219-117-106-20090629) with ESMTP id <20100522232359.AVR14520.mta11.charter.net@imp09> for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 19:23:59 -0400 Received: from kelly ([68.114.55.67]) by imp09 with smtp.charter.net id LnPy1e0031T0s0405nPzuD; Sat, 22 May 2010 19:23:59 -0400 X-Authority-Analysis: v=1.0 c=1 a=HhHGWWbKiSQA:10 a=GQCbJdZ--msA:10 a=8nJEP1OIZ-IA:10 a=BvQN7vPq-C_9_cByuYkA:9 a=KKYVwIXIl6TUzS2bxZacGjlXBhEA:4 a=wPNLvfGTeEIA:10 Message-ID: From: "Union Consult" To: References: MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1"; reply-type=original Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Priority: 3 X-MSMail-Priority: Normal X-Mailer: Microsoft Outlook Express 6.00.2900.5931 X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.00.2900.5931 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 68, Issue 7 Wholly Moley X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 23:24:10 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 19:23:55 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 23:24:10 -0000 Geofrey wrote: "Ever hear the saying " next time you think you're perfect, try walking on water?" I'm not religious, but to see such posts ( doesn't sound like you were being funny here if that's the intention from your post), you wouldn't have dared have said that to me in person if I'd have made that error. Sounds like you need to take a look at yourself. " Yes I have heard it, and again, my post was intended to be humorous, as in I wrote "Wholly Moley" instead of "Holey Moley" and I would have certainly "dared" or "double dared" to say it in person, face to face and all that. Your assignment is to find out what a "Moley" is and report back to us! From union-consult@charter.net Sat May 22 20:08:01 2010 Received: from mta11.charter.net (mta11.charter.net [216.33.127.80]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4N080TJ016553 for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 20:08:00 -0400 Received: from imp09 ([10.20.200.9]) by mta11.charter.net (InterMail vM.7.09.02.04 201-2219-117-106-20090629) with ESMTP id <20100523000750.NHM14520.mta11.charter.net@imp09> for ; Sat, 22 May 2010 20:07:50 -0400 Received: from kelly ([68.114.55.67]) by imp09 with smtp.charter.net id Lo7p1e0041T0s0405o7qHn; Sat, 22 May 2010 20:07:50 -0400 X-Authority-Analysis: v=1.0 c=1 a=mI6YO6ZdSLUA:10 a=8nJEP1OIZ-IA:10 a=7Wbnr92mGCA5PoWoGj4A:9 a=35_Pa-GEwQ2y2554pDcNPjoAZhcA:4 a=wPNLvfGTeEIA:10 Message-ID: <0E086C2E26DB4690987A4FFC9414364B@kelly> From: "Union Consult" To: References: MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1"; reply-type=original Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Priority: 3 X-MSMail-Priority: Normal X-Mailer: Microsoft Outlook Express 6.00.2900.5931 X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.00.2900.5931 Subject: [UUPoly-L] cutting trailing messages GUILTY X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Sun, 23 May 2010 00:08:01 -0000 X-Original-Date: Sat, 22 May 2010 20:07:30 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Sun, 23 May 2010 00:08:01 -0000 Sorry, after preaching about this, I committed the email sin of not doing so. I apologize From beardrummer@gmail.com Tue May 25 18:49:26 2010 Received: from mail-gw0-f47.google.com (mail-gw0-f47.google.com [74.125.83.47]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4PMnQIX011979 for ; Tue, 25 May 2010 18:49:26 -0400 Received: by gwb15 with SMTP id 15so1576850gwb.20 for ; Tue, 25 May 2010 15:49:25 -0700 (PDT) Received: by 10.100.53.30 with SMTP id b30mr9059692ana.188.1274827765435; Tue, 25 May 2010 15:49:25 -0700 (PDT) Received: from [192.168.254.2] (184-12-251-225.dr01.myck.or.frontiernet.net [184.12.251.225]) by mx.google.com with ESMTPS id 15sm2959042gxk.10.2010.05.25.15.49.23 (version=TLSv1/SSLv3 cipher=RC4-MD5); Tue, 25 May 2010 15:49:24 -0700 (PDT) Message-ID: <4BFC53E4.7020906@gmail.com> From: BearDrummer User-Agent: Thunderbird 2.0.0.24 (Windows/20100228) MIME-Version: 1.0 To: uupoly-l@uupa.org References: <457649.99322.qm@web114612.mail.gq1.yahoo.com> <52843901ACC44F4BA85DF42C04C47287@HamsaPC> In-Reply-To: <52843901ACC44F4BA85DF42C04C47287@HamsaPC> Content-Type: text/plain; charset=ISO-8859-1; format=flowed Content-Transfer-Encoding: 8bit X-MIME-Autoconverted: from quoted-printable to 8bit by msb.ernest-doss.org id o4PMnQIX011979 Subject: [UUPoly-L] dating X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Tue, 25 May 2010 22:49:27 -0000 X-Original-Date: Tue, 25 May 2010 15:49:08 -0700 X-List-Received-Date: Tue, 25 May 2010 22:49:27 -0000 Firstly, Greetings to Geoffrey and any other new people Secondly, greetings to everyone else as well. I have to admit to being worse than a lurker... I get busy and just can everything... today was a good day, and I had time to read (and respond) I would like to add something else to what Tara was saying. When most of us met our first love, we did not start out with "I am looking for the first of XX people to marry", or even "I am wanting to find the person I am going to marry now." As much as my wife and I would LOVE to find that single bisexual female who would fall head over heels in love (and in bed) with us, we know that there is a process. Even if that is the eventual goal, remember that there are steps to getting there, and not everyone that starts on that path end up at the end of the trail. I guess my point is, most of us dated the partner we have for a while before deciding to commit and marry. We need to realize that the other person we are wanting to add has all the same needs, desires, and cautions that we had back then. AND not all relationships will end up with commitment... most of us didn't marry the first person we dated... why would they? Another and extremely important point... Don't forget to date your partner/spouse... just because you are a couple and/or living in the same house doesn't mean you can forget to get out and concentrate on each others romantic needs... BearDrummer, who really needs to listen to his own advice.... Tara Shakti-Ma wrote: > Hi Geoffrey: > > Interestingly, this sort of aspiration recently came up on another list. I'll share here what I wrote there. > > As a "single/available" (in the sense I have no co-habiting partners) bisexual, polyamorous woman, I can speak from my own experience. I often find when I express this it resonates with other women like me. Sometimes we are called "unicorns"....as in hard to find, if not entirely mythical. We become more mythical when a "couple" presents they are looking for a "third" to "complete" them, with the expectation beyond that, that the relationship will then basically be "closed" and essentially merely the same as monogamous marriage, except there's 3 member instead of 2. If this is your goal, you may be inviting a great deal of frustration on yourselves. If this is your goal, you may want to consider a broader and more expansive approach to your polyamorous expression. For me personally, while I might be very flattered and a bit affirmed when a "couple" approaches me with the intention of exploring a triadic connection/relationship, I also feel the pressure and expectations that I'll be equally and simultaneously interested and attracted to each of them. This actually rarely ever happens for anyone, and most definitely me. This isn't to suggest it something like that may evolve over time, but if your polyamorous expression depends on the specific poly-model, you may be waiting a very, very long time. You will likely hear the same thing from the majority of poly-folk who have been at this for a while. Trust their experience and wisdom...they know. > > As a woman who is very open to entering into a sustainable triadic cohabiting relationship, I prefer to get to know each person individually, and to feel that I am free to become romantically involved with only one of them and perhaps merely have a caring friendship with the other. I certainly have no interest in a closed fMf marriage of 3....most "single" polyamorous women I know don't. Many of us have existing relationships with partners with whom we do not cohabit and we have no intention of abandoning those. So the "closed" just wouldn't work for us. Personally, I always want for myself and my partners (real or imagined at this point) to have the freedom to also enjoy loving, intimate relationships with others....ideally being able to have some sort of friendly accord with those other individuals at the very least as well. > > I know this is likely not what you want to hear, but I feel it's a good think to consider. > > Namaste': > Tara Shakti-Ma )O( > http://www.facebook.com/Tara.ShaktiMa.Dakini > > * Join us at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ExpansiveLoving/ - An internationally serving on-line group for spiritually and new-paradigm inclined poly-folk. We also have a companion group by the same name on Facebook. > > * New England Area Polyamory Network at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NEAPN/ - Serving as a central resource for poly-folk in and around the New England area...also with a companion group on Facebook. > > > © Copyright Tara Shakti-Ma 2010 > ----- Original Message ----- > From: Geoffrey McCafferty > To: uupoly-l@uupa.org > Sent: Friday, May 21, 2010 10:06 PM > Subject: [UUPoly-L] Hello everyone!! > > > Hello friends, > > my fiancée and I are polyfidel and looking for a special lady to fill the whole in our hearts. we have a solid relationship and lots of love to give. we are considering beginning to attend a unitarian church. there is one in our home town. > > Shalom, > > Geoffreu > > > > _______________________________________________ > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. > UUPoly-L mailing list > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > _______________________________________________ > The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives. > Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself. > UUPoly-L mailing list > UUPoly-L@uupa.org > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l > > From aine.maire@gmail.com Tue May 25 22:44:50 2010 Received: from mail-qy0-f172.google.com (mail-qy0-f172.google.com [209.85.221.172]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4Q2ioWi023675 for ; Tue, 25 May 2010 22:44:50 -0400 Received: by qyk2 with SMTP id 2so2015891qyk.20 for ; Tue, 25 May 2010 19:44:49 -0700 (PDT) Received: by 10.229.185.1 with SMTP id cm1mr1733652qcb.57.1274841889182; Tue, 25 May 2010 19:44:49 -0700 (PDT) MIME-Version: 1.0 Received: by 10.229.236.195 with HTTP; Tue, 25 May 2010 19:44:19 -0700 (PDT) In-Reply-To: <4BFC53E4.7020906@gmail.com> References: <457649.99322.qm@web114612.mail.gq1.yahoo.com> <52843901ACC44F4BA85DF42C04C47287@HamsaPC> <4BFC53E4.7020906@gmail.com> From: aine.maire@gmail.com Message-ID: To: uupoly-l@uupa.org Content-Type: text/plain; charset=ISO-8859-1 X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] dating X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Wed, 26 May 2010 02:44:50 -0000 X-Original-Date: Tue, 25 May 2010 22:44:19 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Wed, 26 May 2010 02:44:50 -0000 *Another and extremely important point... Don't forget to date your partner/spouse... just because you are a couple and/or living in the same house doesn't mean you can forget to get out and concentrate on each others romantic needs...* ** *How true. This is something my partner and I try to do. He goes on dates with his OSO. I realized we hadn't had a "date" in ages. So now we have "date night." Or at least we're trying to come up with something (dinner and movie, bowling, whatever) and call it a date without texts or phone calls from our other partners.* ** *Alot is learning to respect your partners by giving them time, even if it means compartmentalizing yourself. At least, that is how it's working for me. I just came home from a 2nd date and now shift my focus back to my primary partner.* ** *Annie:)* I think dogs are the most amazing creatures. They give unconditional love. For me, they are the role model for being alive. ~Gilda Radner You think dogs will not be in heaven? I tell you, they will be there long before any of us. ~Robert Louis Stevenson From JasmineGld@aol.com Thu May 27 12:13:36 2010 Received: from imr-ma05.mx.aol.com (imr-ma05.mx.aol.com [64.12.100.31]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4RGD25p007168 for ; Thu, 27 May 2010 12:13:36 -0400 Received: from imo-da03.mx.aol.com (imo-da03.mx.aol.com [205.188.169.201]) by imr-ma05.mx.aol.com (8.14.1/8.14.1) with ESMTP id o4RGCpxk016426 for ; Thu, 27 May 2010 12:12:51 -0400 Received: from JasmineGld@aol.com by imo-da03.mx.aol.com (mail_out_v42.9.) id g.c42.6795a18a (37035) for ; Thu, 27 May 2010 12:12:45 -0400 (EDT) Received: from magic-d23.mail.aol.com (magic-d23.mail.aol.com [172.19.146.157]) by cia-db02.mx.aol.com (v129.4) with ESMTP id MAILCIADB025-90ab4bfe99fcc3; Thu, 27 May 2010 12:12:45 -0400 From: JasmineGld@aol.com Message-ID: To: uupoly-l@uupa.org MIME-Version: 1.0 X-Mailer: 9.0 Security Edition for Windows sub 5379 X-AOL-ORIG-IP: 74.130.8.252 X-AOL-IP: 172.19.146.157 X-Spam-Flag: NO X-AOL-SENDER: JasmineGld@aol.com Content-Type: text/plain; charset="US-ASCII" Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: [UUPoly-L] Notice of UUPA Membership Meeting X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Thu, 27 May 2010 16:13:36 -0000 X-Original-Date: Thu, 27 May 2010 12:12:44 EDT X-List-Received-Date: Thu, 27 May 2010 16:13:36 -0000 NOTICE of UUPA Annual Membership Meeting You are hereby invited to attend the tenth Annual Membership Meeting of Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness. Saturday, June 26 1:00 pm to 2:30 pm Hilton Garden Inn 1101 4th Ave S Minneapolis MN Directions from the Convention Center: The Hilton Garden Inn is across the street from the Minneapolis Convention Center For meeting room number, check at the UUPA booth in the Exhibit Hall, or contact Harlan White, UUPA President, at mnstrm@erosong.net on or after Wednesday, June 23. Attendance via conference call will be available. To attend via conference call: 1. Notify the Secretary by June 14 at uupa@uupa.org of your plans to attend by teleconference. The Secretary will give you the dial in number and PIN. If you think you might attend but aren't sure, please let us know so we can make adequate teleconference preparations. 2. Disable call waiting before dialing, usually done by dialing *70 3. Dial the conference number at 12:50pm Central Daylight Time 4. When prompted, enter the PIN 5. Please use a phone with a mute feature and keep your phone on mute when listening. This will reduce background noise and improve the quality of participation for everyone. 6. The moderator will attempt to give teleconference participants adequate opportunities to participate in discussions. Active members of UUPA who have been members for at least thirty days prior to the meeting are eligible to vote on business at this meeting. Inactive members are encouraged to renew their memberships prior to the meeting, which will restore their voting eligibility. Please check your address label and confirm your membership status. If you believe there is an error in your membership status, please contact UUPA at the contact info listed above. This UUPA meeting is arranged separately from the UUA General Assembly and is held outside the Minneapolis Convention Center. The UUPA meeting does not require GA registration. UUPA encourages participation in General Assembly. (www.uua.org/events/generalassembly/). Please visit the UUPA booth in the Exhibit Hall for information about UUPA social gatherings during General Assembly, or check for updates on the UUPoly email list. The UUPA Board of Trustees looks forward to seeing you in Minneapolis! Sincerely, Jasmine Walston Secretary, UUPA ~~~~~~~~~ 2010 Annual Membership Meeting of Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness Agenda 1. Opening reading 2. Appointment of moderator and recording secretary 3. Establishment of quorum 4. Reports a. Minutes, 2009 Annual Meeting b. Membership report c. Treasurer's report d. Chapters report 5. Election of trustees 6. Update on relationship with the UUA 7. Discussion of current and proposed activities 8. Other business UUPA is an independent organization. UUPA holds its annual membership meeting each year during the UUA General Assembly. From JasmineGld@aol.com Thu May 27 12:31:01 2010 Received: from imr-db02.mx.aol.com (imr-db02.mx.aol.com [205.188.91.96]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4RGURVg008712 for ; Thu, 27 May 2010 12:31:01 -0400 Received: from imo-da01.mx.aol.com (imo-da01.mx.aol.com [205.188.169.199]) by imr-db02.mx.aol.com (8.14.1/8.14.1) with ESMTP id o4RGUKXY030176 for ; Thu, 27 May 2010 12:30:20 -0400 Received: from JasmineGld@aol.com by imo-da01.mx.aol.com (mail_out_v42.9.) id g.ddb.921a6c2 (34980) for ; Thu, 27 May 2010 12:30:18 -0400 (EDT) Received: from magic-d23.mail.aol.com (magic-d23.mail.aol.com [172.19.146.157]) by cia-da08.mx.aol.com (v129.4) with ESMTP id MAILCIADA085-88a44bfe9e19f9; Thu, 27 May 2010 12:30:17 -0400 From: JasmineGld@aol.com Message-ID: To: uupoly-l@uupa.org MIME-Version: 1.0 X-Mailer: 9.0 Security Edition for Windows sub 5379 X-AOL-ORIG-IP: 74.130.8.252 X-AOL-IP: 172.19.146.157 X-Spam-Flag: NO X-AOL-SENDER: JasmineGld@aol.com Content-Type: text/plain; charset="US-ASCII" Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: [UUPoly-L] Notice hard copy errors X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Thu, 27 May 2010 16:31:03 -0000 X-Original-Date: Thu, 27 May 2010 12:30:17 EDT X-List-Received-Date: Thu, 27 May 2010 16:31:03 -0000 Hard copy notice of UUPA's Membership Meeting has been placed in the mail, per the bylaws. The hard copy includes two errors. The correct information is included in the emailed notice that preceded this message, and is also copied below. ------------------------------------------------------------ "3. Dial the conference number at 12:50pm Central Daylight Time, 10 minutes before the meeting begins." The hard copy listed last year's call in time. ------------------------------------------------------------ "...tenth Annual Membership Meeting" The hard copy called it the "ninth" meeting. ------------------------------------------------------------ I apologize for these errors. Jasmine Walston UUPA Secretary From kd0r@fhrd.net Mon May 31 15:29:27 2010 Received: from trueband.net (director.trueband.net [216.163.120.8]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with SMTP id o4VJSsnS021110 for ; Mon, 31 May 2010 15:29:27 -0400 Received: (qmail 13647 invoked by uid 1006); 31 May 2010 19:28:54 -0000 Received: from kd0r@fhrd.net by rs0 by uid 1003 with qmail-scanner-1.16 (spamassassin: 3.2.5. Clear:SA:0(0.1/100.0):. Processed in 0.164938 secs); 31 May 2010 19:28:54 -0000 X-Spam-Status: No, hits=0.1 required=100.0 X-Spam-Level: Received: from unknown (HELO trueband.net) (172.16.0.4) by director.trueband.net with SMTP; 31 May 2010 19:28:53 -0000 Received: (qmail 13359 invoked from network); 31 May 2010 19:28:52 -0000 Received: from unknown (HELO ?127.0.0.1?) (kd0r@75.104.74.72) by -v with SMTP; 31 May 2010 19:28:52 -0000 Message-ID: <4C040DD2.7070609@fhrd.net> From: David Heinsohn User-Agent: Thunderbird 2.0.0.24 (Windows/20100228) MIME-Version: 1.0 To: Kansas Polyamory , OKPoly , uupoly-l@uupa.org Content-Type: text/plain; charset=ISO-8859-1; format=flowed Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit Subject: [UUPoly-L] Polyamory hits the Indy 500 X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Mon, 31 May 2010 19:29:28 -0000 X-Original-Date: Mon, 31 May 2010 14:28:18 -0500 X-List-Received-Date: Mon, 31 May 2010 19:29:28 -0000 Good Afternoon All I was sitting at my parents watching the 500 with dad when a Honda commercial came across. This commercial had the theme "My ______ has one" The 'one' of course being various Honda's. Like My brother, sister, father etc. One of the examples was "My boy friends" the picture was one girl and two guys beside a minivan. Needless to say I did a happy double take and didn't say a word until Chris and I were driving away. So what other ads have you seen that include poly as a part of the ad? Did you see this one? Happy Holiday to all, David From dakinitara@tantrikapath.com Mon May 31 15:51:58 2010 Received: from vms173011pub.verizon.net (vms173011pub.verizon.net [206.46.173.11]) by msb.ernest-doss.org (8.12.11/8.12.11) with ESMTP id o4VJpOoT022655 for ; Mon, 31 May 2010 15:51:58 -0400 Received: from HamsaPC ([unknown] [71.173.174.88]) by vms173011.mailsrvcs.net (Sun Java(tm) System Messaging Server 7u2-7.02 32bit (built Apr 16 2009)) with ESMTPA id <0L3A003E9V4RIYA2@vms173011.mailsrvcs.net> for uupoly-l@uupa.org; Mon, 31 May 2010 14:50:57 -0500 (CDT) Message-id: <5AFA12C4B25A4049BC34A7E3151DE2E6@HamsaPC> From: "Tara Shakti-Ma" To: References: <4C040DD2.7070609@fhrd.net> In-reply-to: <4C040DD2.7070609@fhrd.net> MIME-version: 1.0 X-Priority: 3 X-MSMail-priority: Normal X-Mailer: Microsoft Windows Mail 6.0.6002.18197 X-MIMEOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.0.6002.18197 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-8859-1" Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable X-Content-Filtered-By: Mailman/MimeDel 2.1.8 Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Polyamory hits the Indy 500 X-BeenThere: uupoly-l@uupa.org X-Mailman-Version: 2.1.8 Precedence: list Reply-To: uupoly-l@uupa.org List-Id: List-Unsubscribe: , List-Archive: List-Post: List-Help: List-Subscribe: , Date: Mon, 31 May 2010 19:51:58 -0000 X-Original-Date: Mon, 31 May 2010 15:50:55 -0400 X-List-Received-Date: Mon, 31 May 2010 19:51:58 -0000 That is VERY cool David. Thanks for sharing that. I can't recall = seeing anything like that before. This made me smile. Blessed Be: Tara Shakti-Ma )O(=20 http://www.facebook.com/Tara.ShaktiMa.Dakini =20 * Join us at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ExpansiveLoving/ - An = internationally serving on-line group for spiritually and new-paradigm = inclined poly-folk. We also have a companion group by the same name on = Facebook. =20 * New England Area Polyamory Network at = http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NEAPN/ - Serving as a central resource for = poly-folk in and around the New England area...also with a companion = group on Facebook. ----- Original Message -----=20 From: David Heinsohn=20 To: Kansas Polyamory ; OKPoly ; uupoly-l@uupa.org=20 Sent: Monday, May 31, 2010 3:28 PM Subject: [UUPoly-L] Polyamory hits the Indy 500 Good Afternoon All I was sitting at my parents watching the 500 with dad when a Honda=20 commercial came across. This commercial had the theme "My ______ has=20 one" The 'one' of course being various Honda's. Like My brother,=20 sister, father etc. One of the examples was "My boy friends" the=20 picture was one girl and two guys beside a minivan. Needless to say I = did a happy double take and didn't say a word until Chris and I were=20 driving away. So what other ads have you seen that include poly as a part of the=20 ad? Did you see this one? Happy Holiday to all, David