I'm seeing your triangle as having all the domain within it. Monogamy,
full on Polyamory, and sex-anything swinging being the corners. Polyfi
would be half way along the mono-poly edge.
But I find myself somewhere out in the middle. I don't swing, but I do
have casual sex with close friends sometimes. We don't call ourselves
lovers, at least not in any ongoing sense, but we're definitely friends
with privileges. That would pull me a little ways off the poly corner
out into the open toward swinging.
And yet, I, from time to time, label myself "coincidentally
monogamous." By this I mean, if I'm enthralled with the one I'm with,
I'm not too much interesting in sexing anyone else. If it happens,
well, cool. But I'm anything but a advertisement for "do me." This
would pull me over to the mono corner a bit.
So here I am, out in the middle of the triangle... enjoying the heck out
of myself, getting my needs met, loving life. <<super grin>>
-Keith
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