Re: [UUPoly-L] Too many circles, lines, triangles.....

["David VanHorn" <dvanhorn@microbrix.com>]

> This again becomes a matter of opinion and boundries. I do not consider
> anyone that I am not sexual with to be someone with whom I am in a
> "relationship" (using the narrower term usually meaning 'romantic', but
> not
> necessarily including love or any real romance).


Perhaps the right focus is that you COULD be sexual with them.

Take me for example, I am now sexual with my wife, and my OSO K.
But if I were to have a medical problem that prevented me from being sexual
at all (as in intercourse), would I then no longer be poly?   "many loves"
it says, not "many sex".

I don't count all my good friends within polyamory either.