the rest of my email addresses that.
at all (as in intercourse), would I then no longer be poly? "many loves" it says, not "many sex".
I don't count all my good friends within polyamory either.
And this is where we have to make the differentiation. I am in love with a woman with whom I COULD have sex and she COULD have sex with me but her BF isn't so keen on the idea. She is not my GF. She's a great friend, but whether or not I COULD have sex with her is not the issue.
-- Brigitte Fires