Re: [UUPoly-L] UUCA: welcoming congregation

[WABaldwin@aol.com]

The more I think about it, the more annoyed I feel by people who say it's 
"just an excuse to have free sex outside of marriage."

Part of me is truly outraged -- how dare someone judge my relationships, and 
tell me whether my relationship with someone is "just an excuse for sex" -- 
How would they know whether it was or not?  And why judge extra-marital 
relationships that way, but not monogamous relationships or dating relationships?

Generally all dating relationships have something to do with sex.  That 
doesn't mean they're only about sex.  And why shouldn't a relationship have 
something to do with sex, anyway?

Bill


In a message dated 11/24/2006 7:45:34 AM Pacific Standard Time, 
ystradyfodwg@yahoo.com writes:

at one time the minister
  told me face-to-face that poly was just an excuse to have free sex outside 
of marriage.