Re: [UUPoly-L] Marriage Vows

[Bitsy <darthbitsy@yahoo.com>]

While we are talking about marriage...

My primary partner and I have been talking for sometime about getting married.  (I've been uneasy
about it, just because I don't like the societal baggage that comes with it.)  If we were to have
some sort of commitment ceremony, I would very much want to include my other partner in some way,
while keeping the ceremony to celebrate the love between myself and my primary .  I'm not ready to
make such a commitment to my other partner.  I think this may be the place of a best man/woman,
but somehow this doesn't seem right (I'd like to forgo such a party, as it seems mainly like a
place for hurt feelings).  Does anyone here have any ideas?

(I was playing with the idea of throwing a pre-ceremony party the night before very clearly hosted
by all three of us, or me and my other partner.)

Bitsy


       
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