Re: [UUPoly-L] Poly Not As Fun As Cheating, Marriage vows

[Patrice <pbadancer77@yahoo.com>]

At my Unitarian-Universalist wedding, There was no vow
of monogamy. My long-time lover Suki was my Matron of
honor.
--Patrice



--- WABaldwin@aol.com wrote:
> I find it very problematical to talk about "marriage
> vows being broken", 
> unless we know for certain what those marriage vows
> were.
>  
> Everybody assumes the "marriage vows" included vows
> of monogamy.  Personally, 
> at my own Unitarian Universalist wedding, I don't
> recall making any such 
> promises of monogamy.  (Of course, it was quite some
> time ago -- 1979 -- but since 
> I already felt "poly" at the time -- even though I
> didn't have that word for 
> it -- I would have been very aware of any promise of
> monogamy by either me or 
> my wife).
>  
> Bill
-----------------------  
> In a message dated 7/1/2007 8:52:43 PM Pacific
> Standard Time, 
> airsafe1@comcast.net writes:
> 
> Is it more important to uphold a "relationship"
> where the marriage vows have
> been broken, or to find love without putting two
> families through the trauma
> and cost of divorce


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