Re: [UUPoly-L] Report from PNWD AGM

[bear@pagansexcult.org]

My only problem with the whole "slave on a leash" scenario
is that I would feel that *I* were being used to fulfill
the conditions of their sex play.

The issue is that if this is enjoyable precisely because it
is "in public", then "the public" is involved and necessary
to their erotic thrill.  IOW, if "being seen" is the thrill,
then the people who "see" are being used as a means to an
end - and I'm not okay with that.  I think it's disrespectful
to *me* to use me as a "john q public" prop in your sex
scenario.

If they're not relating to me as a person, but instead using
me as an audience, then I really have no use for them.

                        Bear