Re: [UUPoly-L] Walls

["Fehd, Ronald J. (CDC/CCHIS/NCPHI)" <rjf2@CDC.GOV>]

> From: "Christine Heinsohn" 
> Walls in a relationship restrict energy flow, prohibit the 
> expressions of joy, and deter connection between beings.  
> With David, I don't want that to happen.
> 
> So, what is your experience with wall building?  

Wall Building Happens!   |-Q

> How do you detect the purpose of walls 
> you find in your relationships with others?  

Well, is one
   pushing away from
or pulling toward 
their partner?

> How do you deal with walls?

Therapy, deep therapy.
We each have had our version of abuse
that leads to the shut-down you describe.

It's a simple choice, one of three:
* Beware
* Be Wary
* Be Aware

Unfortunately, my partner's problems or attitudes
are not something I can fix nor adjust.
... and figure out -their- purpose? ... I don't think so!

But I can become aware of my own stuff
and mitigate the fall-out, blow-back
that my partner has to put up with
when dealing with me.

recommended: 
* get physically healthy
* Jungian therapy
* hypnosis
  example: http://www.drskillas.com/

Ron  reported by another therapee:
    "Excuse me, honey;
     I'm going out to the car and scream for a moment;
     I'll be right back."