Re: [UUPoly-L] walls

[Dianne Rhodes <lilredstorm@hotmail.com>]

Sent it to the old address, sorry!


From: lilredstorm@hotmail.comTo: uupoly@polyamory.netSubject: re: wallsDate: Sat, 10 Mar 2007 22:18:13 +0000


Christine, Sometimes in our life we need walls.  I am not very good at veneers, my real self always manages to show through.  But there are times in my life when I am feeling most vulnerable and can't be as available to my partner.  My therapist told me long ago the answer is 'dialogue' that is how you build true intimacy.  As for therapy types, you might like to read Harville Hendrix and learn about Imago therapy, and you might learn more about yourself by learning your Enneagram type.  Those are the things that have helped me. Dianne

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