Re: [UUPoly-L] Hi, I'm Marlena

["Li" <los_lord@lairhaven.com>]

Well said, Bitsy. The best explanation/discussion-starter/justification for
our choices is the abundance of happy adults and well-beloved children.

-----Original Message-----
From: uupoly-l-bounces+los_lord=lairhaven.com@uupa.org
[mailto:uupoly-l-bounces+los_lord=lairhaven.com@uupa.org] On Behalf Of Bitsy
Sent: Wednesday, November 28, 2007 2:38 PM
To: uupoly-l@uupa.org
Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Hi, I'm Marlena

Welcome.

When I came out many people who I thought would understand didn't, and many
people I thought
wouldn't did.  I suppose its just the way it goes.  That doesn't make it
hurt any less, however. 
If your mother sees you, and your happiness with your situation, I'm sure
she'll come around. 
(Buying her a book explaining it, or pointing her to webpages may or may not
hurt, however.  I've
found I prefer people not deal with the theory, "I believe one can have
enough love for multiple
people" but rather with the reality, these people are in a relationship with
me, and we are
happy.)

Good luck!

Bitsy


 
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