Re: [UUPoly-L] Dealing with Others

[Bitsy <darthbitsy@yahoo.com>]

While not in the same situation as you (I?m the center of a V), I felt much the same sorts of
reactions when I started to be more out about my relationships.  I think that is pretty common. 
My friends either came to accept my relationships, or I got less close to them and closer to the
ones that did.  No advice, but be willing to let you friends get beyond there first reactions to
see that you are happy.  I think most people here have been there.

Bitsy

--- Trisha LeChat <giselle-trisha@hotmail.com> wrote:

> 
> I have recently moved in with a couple, we are mostly a "V" with the man at the center.  We are
> all very happy with our situation and I feel secure and loved with them, but I am experiencing
> negativity and judgment from others.  Even though we are not really "out" to anyone, I have
> heard comments from my prior family/friends that this couple wants me just for my money and/or
> sex, that I am a "third wheel" and it's "weird".  These statements have made me withdraw from
> the people who were formerly a part of my life, because I feel judged, and because I am
> disappointed in their reactions.  
> 



       
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