Re: [UUPoly-L] Dealing with Others

[Trisha LeChat <giselle-trisha@hotmail.com>]

Thank you for sharing your experience.  
 
> Date: Tue, 11 Sep 2007 07:05:21 -0700> From: darthbitsy@yahoo.com> To: uupoly-l@uupa.org> Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Dealing with Others> > While not in the same situation as you (I’m the center of a V), I felt much the same sorts of> reactions when I started to be more out about my relationships. I think that is pretty common. > My friends either came to accept my relationships, or I got less close to them and closer to the> ones that did. No advice, but be willing to let you friends get beyond there first reactions to> see that you are happy. I think most people here have been there.> > Bitsy> > --- Trisha LeChat <giselle-trisha@hotmail.com> wrote:> > > > > I have recently moved in with a couple, we are mostly a "V" with the man at the center. We are> > all very happy with our situation and I feel secure and loved with them, but I am experiencing> > negativity and judgment from others. Even though we are not really "out" to anyone, I have> > heard comments from my prior family/friends that this couple wants me just for my money and/or> > sex, that I am a "third wheel" and it's "weird". These statements have made me withdraw from> > the people who were formerly a part of my life, because I feel judged, and because I am> > disappointed in their reactions. > > > > > > > ____________________________________________________________________________________> Need a vacation? Get great deals> to amazing places on Yahoo! Travel.> http://travel.yahoo.com/> _______________________________________________> The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives.> Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself.> UUPoly-L mailing list> UUPoly-L@uupa.org> http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l
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