Re: [UUPoly-L] Fw: Sing it from the hilltop - judiciously

["Paul Beck" <nicothoe@gmail.com>]

my wife and i decide to embarked upon a poly lifestyle less than one month
ago, and since then we have disclosed our decision to several close friends.


while we see no reason to advertise it every person under the sun, telling
people has given me more confidence in myself. i am neither embarrassed or
ashamed - and as self-conscious as i am - that is huge !!

so far, there have been no problems with the people we have told, other than
a proposition towards my wife. :-) If there are people who do have issues,
then we will politely remind them that this is *our *life, that we make *our
own *choices based upon *our views*, and not those of others.

should they persist, then I would tell them that the only sexual
relationship i have ever had has been with my wife. If they cannot admit to
the same, then they are in no position to lecture me about sexual morality.
Of course, turning the tables in that way would be a mean thing to do!!  But
I will happily do it.  :-)

paul


-- 

Dwight L. Moody  - "I have had more trouble with myself than with any other
man I've met."