Re: [UUPoly-L] Gay or Bi

[bear@pagansexcult.org]

On Sat, 5 Jan 2008, Jens L. Wennberg wrote:

> MSM = Men who have sex with men.  Some men who have sex with men may not
> define themselves as gay or bi but rather just straight with other
> interests.  In the black community they are called *men on the down-low*.


Y'know, how they define *themselves* seems more like a
question of how to be polite to them (ie, what words will
and won't offend them) than any sensible idea of what they
actually *are*.

I mean, face it: That minority of people who are physically
*capable* of sexual function with only a single other gender
are not bisexual.

Just about everybody else ... well, if we can't use the word
"bisexual" to describe them then what does bisexual mean?

                                 Bear