Re: [UUPoly-L] Gay or Bi

["David VanHorn" <microbrix@gmail.com>]

 i know a UU minister was married to a man, and happy.  and then she
fell in love with a woman, her partner of more than ten years now, and
had to rethink her identity.  was she repressing her homosexual
identity all those years?  i don't think so.  i think her sexual
identity changed, as did the rest of her identity as she moved from
childhood to old age.
 azora



Mine changed rather suddenly, a result of a few HAI workshops.  It
just seems silly to me now, not to love someone because of their
plumbing.  My wife and I were straight/mono, pure vanilla for 30
years.  Now, we are both bi, and enjoying it.  It's nice to have the
blinders off.