Re: [UUPoly-L] Time and practice?

[Rosemary Amico <sophygurl@yahoo.com>]

--- On Fri, 10/3/08, stargazngal <stargazngal@yahoo.com> wrote:
> I'm not sure if I've helped you Rosemary, but quite
> honestly, our ability to talk to each other about this is
> such an open manner has enhanced our marriage sooo much. 

Stargazngal, thank you for sharing this. It feels especially good to know that, despite the difficulties, this has still been a positive experience for you and your husband because I'm struggling more this week with things. The new girlfriend is coming up for a visit soon - the first time since she and my partner have admitted their feelings for one another, and we've opened things up in include her. I'm trying to find the right balance between honoring my own feelings of fear and sadness that are coming up, and still being happy for the two of them. It seems like a bit of a tricky line at the moment, but I do feel like it will get easier with time and practice.

Seriously. Someone tell me it will get easier with time and practice!! ;)

-Rosemary
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