Re: [UUPoly-L] Time and practice?

["Richard Keenan" <RiKeena1@wsc.edu>]

I suggest, for step one, as you meet,  tell your exact feelings to both of them and do
it kindly and say you want to be supportive if you do.  That's a good start.
 
Richard Keenan, Ph.D.
Department of Communication 
Wayne State College
Wayne, Nebraska  68787

>>> Rosemary Amico <sophygurl@yahoo.com> 10/9/2008 10:56 PM >>>
--- On Fri, 10/3/08, stargazngal <stargazngal@yahoo.com> wrote:
> I'm not sure if I've helped you Rosemary, but quite
> honestly, our ability to talk to each other about this is
> such an open manner has enhanced our marriage sooo much. 

Stargazngal, thank you for sharing this. It feels especially good to know that, despite
the difficulties, this has still been a positive experience for you and your husband
because I'm struggling more this week with things. The new girlfriend is coming up for a
visit soon - the first time since she and my partner have admitted their feelings for
one another, and we've opened things up in include her. I'm trying to find the right
balance between honoring my own feelings of fear and sadness that are coming up, and
still being happy for the two of them. It seems like a bit of a tricky line at the
moment, but I do feel like it will get easier with time and practice.

Seriously. Someone tell me it will get easier with time and practice!! ;)

-Rosemary
http://sophy.livejournal.com/ 
"The less I seek my source for some definitive
The closer I am to fine."
Indigo Girls



      
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