Re: [UUPoly-L] Time and practice?

["K Kylev" <sweetbinbi@gmail.com>]

This is, of course, great advice from Richard.  Total honesty with kindness
is always the best policy.  Blessings to you all---do hope it goes well
Rosemary---take deep breaths breathing in peace and let love flow out to
yourself and those around you .   Have a wonderful weekend Richard, Rosemary
and Stargazngal!

On Fri, Oct 10, 2008 at 12:59 PM, Richard Keenan <RiKeena1@wsc.edu> wrote:

> I suggest, for step one, as you meet,  tell your exact feelings to both of
> them and do
> it kindly and say you want to be supportive if you do.  That's a good
> start.
>
> Richard Keenan, Ph.D.
> Department of Communication
> Wayne State College
> Wayne, Nebraska  68787
>
> >>> Rosemary Amico <sophygurl@yahoo.com> 10/9/2008 10:56 PM >>>
>  --- On Fri, 10/3/08, stargazngal <stargazngal@yahoo.com> wrote:
> > I'm not sure if I've helped you Rosemary, but quite
> > honestly, our ability to talk to each other about this is
> > such an open manner has enhanced our marriage sooo much.
>
> Stargazngal, thank you for sharing this. It feels especially good to know
> that, despite
> the difficulties, this has still been a positive experience for you and
> your husband
> because I'm struggling more this week with things. The new girlfriend is
> coming up for a
> visit soon - the first time since she and my partner have admitted their
> feelings for
> one another, and we've opened things up in include her. I'm trying to find
> the right
> balance between honoring my own feelings of fear and sadness that are
> coming up, and
> still being happy for the two of them. It seems like a bit of a tricky line
> at the
> moment, but I do feel like it will get easier with time and practice.
>
> Seriously. Someone tell me it will get easier with time and practice!! ;)
>
> -Rosemary
> http://sophy.livejournal.com/
> "The less I seek my source for some definitive
> The closer I am to fine."
> Indigo Girls
>
>
>
>
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