Re: [UUPoly-L] Another Case of Mono After a Failed 3 Month Poly Relationship (paul)

[Timothy McKee <mknd17@hotmail.com>]

Paul:
 
While your new partner may be very devoted and trustworthy as you put it, there is no guarantee that that relationship will not fizzle as well. Regarding your original agreement to be faithful at first to your former poly partner before branching out, there is no guarantee that any of us with such notions will not end up falling for someone else.  As McCain put it about a teenager's unplanned pregnancy: "llife happens."  I would caution against putting your own NRE up there too high with the new love.  Good luck!
 
Tim
 
 



> Date: Sun, 14 Sep 2008 11:09:30 -0700> From: paul3421602001@yahoo.com> To: uupoly-l@uupa.org> Subject: [UUPoly-L] Another Case of Mono After a Failed 3 Month Poly Relationship (paul)> > Cyn,> > My ex-poly partner and I had agreed that we would build a monogamous MF relationship first before she would date other men; but she could also date as many women as she wanted. I have "short hair" (not her typical type) and look more conservative like her bosses at work even though I'm a liberal Democrat. A polyamorous married male with long hair and a beard (her normal type) emailed her three to four weeks ago. She had lots of new relationship energy for him. I soon realized that she couldn't be trusted because she's too flaky.> > My new monogamous partner is very devoted and very trust worthy; and I'd never go back to my former polypartner who's no worth trusting.> > Paul> > _______________________________________________> The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives.> Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself.> UUPoly-L mailing list> UUPoly-L@uupa.org> http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l