Re: [UUPoly-L] Question

["Christine Heinsohn" <kb4wyr@fhrd.net>]

Johhny said:  I seem to feel I  have no problem being with just one woman if
she can keep me happy in bed  (making love a few times a week)


Chris's Response:  I read this line and it jumped out at me.  I know that
sex in a committed romantic relationship is really really important.  So
important that both parties have to work on all the aspects of their
relationship because if they don't their sex life will suffer.  If'n you
aren't engaged in outside of bed, you won't much be in bed either.

I an struck by the blame for success or failure of a relationship be placed
on whether one's sexual partner can keep you happy in bed.  Happiness is not
something anyone can ever give you, it is something you are.  You are the
one who has to bring happiness to your relationships, others will never be
able to do it for you, no matter how many partners you (and that is the
generic "you" not a-finger-pointing-at-Johnny "you") have.


Christine