Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 48, Issue 8

[Trisha LeChat <giselle-trisha@hotmail.com>]

I like your story.  :)> Date: Wed, 17 Sep 2008 08:24:41 -0700> From: darrellkennedy@yahoo.com> To: uupoly-l@uupa.org> Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 48, Issue 8> > Thanks all for sharing in the last few months.>  > I read the postings frequently and post very infrequently.>  > I am so glad to see a means of posting that we can share our innermost feelings. My story is a little different from what I've been reading so I'll see what kind of response I get.>  > I am male and I have been married 3 times and am now on number 4. Realizing for some time the need for additional relationships in my life I had asked the present wife if she could/would allow me to have as many as 3 more wifes in my life as time passed on and she agreed that I could do so although she said she didn't want additional men. We are older 67 me and her 55, both very physically fit. We have been married just over 2 years.>  > I don't know why I like additional women, (variety, excitement, mental and emotional stimulation?? or a combination of all and then some), but I do know the idea is very addicting and consuming. We have decided recently to divorce so that everyone can be considered an equal when we have others in our lifes since it is illegal to marry more than one an the ones that would be common-law-marriages might feel less-than. >  > We love each other very much and I fully believe I have the capability of loving others equally. Our plan is to live communally in long term/ life time relationships. Communal living sounds very good to me and helps all to minimize expenses. What say you on this matter??>  > We live in Michigan and are/plan on being snowbirds as much as possible.>  > Thanks for all future responses (and applicants),> > Darrell and Irene> > --- On Tue, 9/16/08, uupoly-l-request@uupa.org <uupoly-l-request@uupa.org> wrote:> > From: uupoly-l-request@uupa.org <uupoly-l-request@uupa.org>> Subject: UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 48, Issue 8> To: uupoly-l@uupa.org> Date: Tuesday, September 16, 2008, 12:00 PM> > Send UUPoly-L mailing list submissions to> uupoly-l@uupa.org> > To subscribe or unsubscribe via the World Wide Web, visit> http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l> or, via email, send a message with subject or body 'help' to> uupoly-l-request@uupa.org> > You can reach the person managing the list at> uupoly-l-owner@uupa.org> > When replying, please edit your Subject line so it is more specific> than "Re: Contents of UUPoly-L digest..."> > > Today's Topics:> > 1. Re: UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 48, Issue 7 (Toni Coles)> 2. STDs and Poly (paul)> > > ----------------------------------------------------------------------> > Message: 1> Date: Mon, 15 Sep 2008 13:59:33 -0500> From: "Toni Coles" <ajcoles@gmail.com>> Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 48, Issue 7> To: uupoly-l@uupa.org> Message-ID:> <ea1777560809151159h352eb3d2r8c74050a008fd895@mail.gmail.com>> Content-Type: text/plain; charset=ISO-8859-1> > OK, so I only have the information I am reading here but I would say that> you & your ex had compatibility issues along with whatever else is> happening. Did she share her preference for long hair to begin with? I> have an ex because she determined that she could no longer live as a> lesbian. I have another that I was too submissive & she wanted a dominant> partner. In both cases they somehow thought that I was going to be> something I couldn't be. Hair style seems to me to be more superficial but> it sounds like it is important to her.> > One way or another it sounds like you are falling into the same place I> always find myself when I have a breakup. Sad & hurt. Later I have found> that I'm much better without a person who wants me to be someone that they> are hoping to make me into that I'm not. Mono or poly haven't anything> to> do with it.> > You haven't shared if you were seeking other people aside from your now ex.> Is it possible that poly is something that isn't part of who you are?> > > > On Mon, Sep 15, 2008 at 11:00 AM, <uupoly-l-request@uupa.org> wrote:> > > Send UUPoly-L mailing list submissions to> > uupoly-l@uupa.org> >> > To subscribe or unsubscribe via the World Wide Web, visit> > http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l> > or, via email, send a message with subject or body 'help' to> > uupoly-l-request@uupa.org> >> > You can reach the person managing the list at> > uupoly-l-owner@uupa.org> >> > When replying, please edit your Subject line so it is more specific> > than "Re: Contents of UUPoly-L digest..."> >> >> > Today's Topics:> >> > 1. Another Case of Mono After a Failed 3 Month Poly Relationship> > (paul) (paul)> > ---------------------------------------------------------> >> > Message: 1> > Date: Sun, 14 Sep 2008 11:09:30 -0700 (PDT)> > From: paul <paul3421602001@yahoo.com>> > Subject: [UUPoly-L] Another Case of Mono After a Failed 3 Month Poly> > Relationship (paul)> > To: uupoly-l@uupa.org> > Message-ID: <340978.16172.qm@web55602.mail.re4.yahoo.com>> > Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii> >> > Cyn,> >> > My ex-poly partner and I had agreed that we would build a monogamous MF> > relationship first before she would date other men; but she could also> date> > as many women as she wanted. I have "short hair" (not her> typical type) and> > look more conservative like her bosses at work even though I'm a> liberal> > Democrat. A polyamorous married male with long hair and a beard (her> normal> > type) emailed her three to four weeks ago. She had lots of new> relationship> > energy for him. I soon realized that she couldn't be trusted because> she's> > too flaky.> >> > My new monogamous partner is very devoted and very trust worthy; and > I'd> > never go back to my former polypartner who's no worth trusting.> >> > Paul> >> >> >> -- > Be who your soul says you are.> > > ------------------------------> > Message: 2> Date: Mon, 15 Sep 2008 17:27:22 -0700 (PDT)> From: paul <paul3421602001@yahoo.com>> Subject: [UUPoly-L] STDs and Poly> To: uupoly-l@uupa.org> Message-ID: <824580.49359.qm@web55603.mail.re4.yahoo.com>> Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii> > Thank you for all of your great comments about my failed Poly relationship.> > Another factor that affected my decisiom is that I and all of my partners> since 2006 have Herpes.> > The ex-wife of a Christian minister at a mega church in CA infected me with> Herpes in 2005. She didn't know that she was infected.> > Paul> > > > ------------------------------> > _______________________________________________> The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives.> Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself.> UUPoly-L mailing list> UUPoly-L@uupa.org> http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l> > > End of UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 48, Issue 8> ***************************************> > > > > _______________________________________________> The UUPoly-L mailing list has public archives.> Please keep that in mind when deciding how much to reveal about yourself.> UUPoly-L mailing list> UUPoly-L@uupa.org> http://www.uupa.org/mailman/listinfo/uupoly-l
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