[UUPoly-L] Gay Men Married to Streight Women

[Ken Haslam <haslamk@gmail.com>]

There is a group supporting Gay Married Men called HOW or Husbands Out
to Wives.

Have attached what we send out to inquiries to HOW.  It can be used by
anyone.  Also, the HOW book can still be fround, I think I shared it
with you.  BISEXUAL AND GAY HUSBANDS:Their Storires, Their Words ed.
by Fritz Klein and Thomas Schwartz (Harrington Park Press, 2001).  The
names change but the stories remain the same.  age seems to be a
predominating factor in whether couples stay together or not, in
addition to religious and socio-economic values.  We get very few
inquirires from guys under 35 (that might be generational) and few
marriages seem to work unless there have been many years of love,
companionship and friendship to sustain the pain of the straight
spouse in being told they are "no longer enough".

There is a big introductory brochure that I will send along if you
contact me off list.  I can put you in touich iwth the list daddy.

Ken Haslam