Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 60, Issue 1

[Dale A Friend <onespiritofall@earthlink.net>]

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   > 1. Re: Comments? (Anita Wagner)
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   >Date: Tue, 1 Sep 2009 13:47:55 -0700 (PDT)
   >From: Anita Wagner <IMAPOLYGIRL@YAHOO.COM>
   >Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Comments?
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   >I think he gave excellent advice, too.? What the poly person fails to
   recognize is that?what she is?introducing is not just a second partner
   into the family.? It's a huge?ethical/moral departure from the?those that
   the rest of the family lives by.? This departure calls those morals into
   question,?morals the family has lived by and literally accepted as
   necessary for the saving of their souls.? So naturally, if they love their
   relatives they will be disturbed by such a radical departure from what is
   necessary for salvation.?
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   >I'm not defending their intolerance, just reflecting on the way this
   looks from their perspective.??I know Jasmine and others here have been
   there, I've certainly been there myself, growing up Southern Baptist and
   all.? Heck, my sister's new husband had to resign as a deacon in his So.
   Baptist church because he married a woman who had been divorced.??She had
   to convince the church elders that hers were "Biblical" divorces in order
   to be permitted to marry in the church.?
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   >Anita??
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   >From: "JasmineGld@aol.com" <JASMINEGLD@AOL.COM>
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   >Sent: Friday, August 21, 2009 6:00:44 PM
   >Subject: Re: [UUPoly-L] Comments?
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   >In a message dated 8/21/2009 5:29:50 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,?
   >ystradyfodwg@yahoo.com writes:
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   >> Ask Richard: Considering
   >> an Ultimatum to her? Intolerant Family
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   >Richard gave excellent advice.
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   >Jasmine
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