Re: [UUPoly-L] UUPoly-L Digest, Vol 65, Issue 9 Tiger ppoly? I think not

["Union Consult" <union-consult@charter.net>]

1.  Folks- you are still forgetting to cut off most of the trailing 
messages when you reply.    Not cutting them off is irresponsible netiquite 
(sp?) like Tiger's activities were irresponsible pormiscuity.

2.  I understand polyamory to be responsible open consenual loving behavior 
and I support and applaud it.  Let's not confuse it with guys (and to a 
lesser extent gals) who just like to enjoy sex outside of their primary 
relationship and not talk about it.

3.  I have been in a relationship where it was agreed we might have sex with 
others and we agreed to be quiet and discreet about it.  I have been in a 
relationship where I have "cheated".  I have been in a relationship where I 
was monogamous while my partner was not, knew it, didn't confront her about 
it, and just let it pass.   None of these relationships were "better" or 
"worse" as a result of the above.  They were merely different in this 
regard.  Their quality or lack thereof was a funciton of a host of other 
non-sexual variables.

Just a few thoughts on a quiet Saturday.